Super Dark OPK 2 days no ewcm

[panda_bebop]

Hello, so I have told about my self once before but it is worth doing it again in my own thread. Married 2 years. We have not been preventing or trying since a few months before we got married. Actively we have been trying for about a year. I am 24 he is 31.

I went to the dr on Dec 17 and again on the 29th for blood work which confirmed O. Husband had sperm analyzed, it is good. I have "further testing" scheduled on the 26th.

So I used fr opk. At about 4 pm the day before yesterday I got a screaming + opk (I usually use wondfo, and only get the same as but never darker lines) we BD at about 8 pm. Yesterday (1/14) at 10 am (we have been in Minnesota for a week, and we left yesterday. I was waking and sleeping since about 6 am did not use fmu. It was second or third) so anyway, an opk at 10 am wad super + like the line showed up immediately, and was so dark the control was weak and when compared to the one from the night before the control was not as dark. So we BD at like 1030 am. Next time we stop I'm going to poas and see what happens. Oh, but no ewcm. I decided to get preseed, and I am very glad I did. Because I very well could be wacky and killing his sperm. Anyway, I feel positive about this month. I am so trying not to get my hopes up, but the super dark opk are making me feel positive. My husband who is generally supportive and wants this too is being ridiculously optimistic. He is even like do you feel pregnant? You should. He was hugging me in. Gas station and was like you must be pregnant that is why I am so lovey dovey. It is sweet. I don't know what I am going to do with myself when we get our bfp. I hope this is our month over 24 months is long enough

 

[panda_bebop]

Update**** just stopped at a gas station. The opk is going down. The line is as dark or slightly lighter than control. We caught a good surge. I am excited. We're going to BD when we wake up (2 hrs from home) we have dtd every other day since I stopped bleeding. We are going to continue for good measure, but I am hopeful. If I'm not blocked up and don't have lesions this could be it.

 

[laura2lyn4]

Sometimes not drinking enough water, or even having a not super healthy diet can prevent having EWCM, just because you don't see it does not mean you didn't ovulate. I tend to have positive opk's for a few days as well, but I also chart my temp to pinpoint my exact ovulation day. You can try using "fertileCM" a supplement to help you naturally produce fertile CM, and you can also use the lube "preseed" when you BD, it mimics EWCM and can help your chances if you aren't producing any of your own, make sure you aren't using any other lube or saliva as it can be harmful to those spermies! Good luck to you!!!

 

[panda_bebop]

My sleep schedule is too all over the place, plus we were travelling. I always toss and turn in the am before taking my temp. I know that not getting ewcm does not mean I didn't o, but what it does mean is there is not as easy of a passage. I usually do get very stretchy cm. I think he preseed will negate lack of natural production. We used preseed this time. I don't really need lube, and we almost didn't get it, but we got it as a what the hey. Even before getting his sperm analyzed we knew what kills sperm, we've been at this for a long time lol. I had watery cm. I very well could have been a bit dehydrated since we were travelling.