Tears of sadness, tears of frustration

[threebirds]

Help, Im getting to be an emotional wreck.
I think the bad AMH result just over a wk ago set me off, and with the mc in the summer Im just so sad, frustrated, upset. Crying at anything and everything - and this includes the film Elf!

This morning's tears were because I am oving today but because of my job will be away from home with no chance to bd So we will have managed to dtd just once during my fertile period. With my low AMH and his low SA doesnt feel like we are giving ourselves a chance.

The pressure of ov time bding is also too much for us, I said Id ease off the poas, temping & basic 'ov watch' if we were having enough regular action, but thats not happening either so the days around ov become crucial.

Sorry for offloading, just on a downer. Im generally a positive upbeat person.

Thanks x

 

[Sus09]

Threebirds

We all need to offload! I so feel your pain lovely, I am in a similar position. Oh lovely so sorry to hear you are feeling like that. I don´t think this time a year helps either, I think many of us are feeling like an emotional wreck...

Maybe it would be good for you both just to relax this cycle and have a bit of fun till the new year comes? I understand with Ov we all want to have a good chance each cycle, however I have found that having a little break (one cycle break) does help relax.

 

[crystal443]

Sus is right, this time of year is hard enough there's alot of ladies on here NTNP until the New Year...enjoy the holidays and go at it fresh in the new year

 

[Elski]

 

[readyformore]

ttc sucks. It's just that simple.

And don't worry about sounding like a downer.
I have to admit that for me, I come here to talk about ttc.......and when it's not going well, it sounds pessimistic. I don't typically come to chat about all of the good things in my life, I have other outlets for those. What we hear is very focused on one aspect of your life. It does not define you as a person.

If ttc was going well, then you would sound more upbeat. It's ok to sound sad. It sounds like you've had a rough time with it lately.

 

[threebirds]

Thank you so much, and look you've made me cry again (i really am a hopeless cause), i appreciate your words and know i do have to just chill a bit!!

 

[Sophia17]

I can totally relate. I feel I'm pressuring the hubby some months as the window of opportunity is so small and without regular bd it makes my chances less likely. Some nights it feels like a chore. So, between that, the hormones, and my whacky cycles which bring me up then let me down, I can definitely relate to what you are saying. Just stay strong and I really hope you get your BFP soon.