Techniques for moving on?

[LaDY]

As most of you know im going insane...sobbing day and night...my eyes are sore and swollen! I can't bare to smile...my life has just fallen apart...and i know il never love the way i have loved this man...

Question is...what technique did you use to get over your exs!...i went into town today and thought id try some retail therapy but it just didnt work...all these nice clothes but no him

Any tips to get me through these difficult days? xx

 

[teal]

I don't really have any tips because I mostly feel anger towards my ex but I'm sending you hugs xx

 

[tinkabells]

It will happen over time, there isnt really anything you can do, but what helped me is watch loads of horrors where people get stabbed and killed lol
DO NOT WATCH ANYTHING HAPPY OR ROMANTIC!!!!
xxx

 

[MissE007]

Tinkabells is right. It just takes time. And its really, really hard. But gradually it gets so much better.

 

[nievesmama]

it will take time , but youll get there xx

 

[BabyGolden]

I've been through hell with my husband and thought i'd lost my children at one point. I've spent endless nights crying and days depressed because he'd taken my children and put them in boarding schools in Africa, despite our objections. I never thought i'd stop feeling angry, and hateful but with time, every wound heals.
He still thinks we're an 'item' but i'd never ever trust him again with my heart, life and children.
It hurts at first and you feel you'll not survive, but just hold tight it does get better. You will be stronger, especially for your little one.

You need to find something positive to hold onto and that includes your baby. Best to you and LO!

 

[sweetlullaby]

It takes time hun, though i cant talk from experience really! You will start feeling better xx