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the dramatic arrival of Lucas Alexander

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I keep putting this off and putting this off because I am finding it difficult too deal with mentally/emotionally but anyway here goes

It started back at the start of december when I developed swelling, during december I was checked out 3 times because the swelling was so bad, but each time I was just sent on my merry way

At new year we went too my parents and well the swelling was so bad I couldn't really walk or move my ankles, bend my knees or anything. I could hardly look after myself never mind little man so me & little man ended up staying at my parents after new year so they could help out with little man while hubby was at work

on the 12th Jan I had a 32 week appointment at the hospital, I went feeling totally crappy and sore because of the swelling. They checked my urine and it had 3+ protein & 3+ blood in, they got me too re do it too double check and it came back the same, they did my blood pressure and it was 145/110 so I was sent straight up too antenatal ward where they took blood

Well it all went down hill from there, with each blood result that came back the situation changed, first they said 'lets keep baby in as long as possible' then it was 'lets aim for 2 weeks' then 'lets aim for 1 week' then 'lets get too 48 hours' and finally 'this baby WILL be born in 24 hours as soon as steroids are on board!' this was all in the space of 2 hours! I was diagnosed with severe PET & HELLP syndrome, I was taken over too delivery suite and they set up a drip too stop me fitting and I was started on blood pressure tablets. We were told that my liver had shut down, my kidneys had shut own and my entire blood system was in the process of shutting down, they were talking about sending me too intensive care & starting dialysis, it was all pretty scary! I was give steroids for baby's lungs. They took bloods every 6 hours too check what was going on, their aim was 24 hours from first steroid injection but they were going too have too deliver if things got too bad before that point

Thankfully we made it too 24 hours and my beautiful little dude (Lucas Alexander) was born at 15.15 on Jan 13th, he was 3lb 11.5oz, he was taken straight too SCBU where he did well for the first 8 hours then required CPAP.

The following day (saturday) I was really ill, I don't remember it much at all, I was so full of toxins. They refused pretty much all visitors but my hubby as I was so ill, they said if they hadn't delivered Lucas the day before then neither him or me would have been here now!)

on the monday they discovered he had a collapsed lung and he was diagnosed with RDS so he had too have a chest drain in, be ventilated & transfered too a bigger hospital with a NICU. He did fab, and at 3 weeks 6 days old he was discharged :)

He is now 5 weeks old and amazing in every way :) He is now 4lb 9oz as of today :)
 
Wow what a scary time...but many congrats on you and little man, relax as much as you can hun! :hugs:
 
Congratulations on your little boy, glad you are both ok now :)
 
So scary hun :( Congrats though, hope you're feeling okay now xx
 
i hope your getting better. congrats on your baby boy recovering well!
 
Hope your both having a speedy recovery, big hugs & congratulations!
 
good god!! that would be so scary... congrats on the bundle xxx
 
Congratulations,Lucas sounds like a little miracle:flower:
 
That sounds scary. I'm glad you are both doing better. Congratulations on Lucas. :hugs:
 
oh hun what a tough time yove had. so glad little dude is thriving well done mamma xxxx
 
Oh blimey BN, you had one heck of a time of it :hugs: I am so glad that both you and Lucas are ok now. Big hugs from me and Midgelet :hugs:
 
so scary for you. i hope your recovering ok now. congratulations on your new little one x
 
Jebus.

I am glad you are both home safe nd sound.

V xxx
 
I'm so glad that you are both well and safe!!

:headspin: on the safe arrival of your little boy!
 
Very scary, thank goodness you're both ok. Huge congratulations x
 
Congratulations on you're little man, sounds very traumatic but i'm glad that in the end, everything went well xx
 
What a scary time that must have been for you. Glad you made it through and that you are both now healthy and home. How did OH and little man cope without you there? I'm terrified of being dmitted for some reason and their world falling apart lol xx
 
What a scary time that must have been, glad you are both ok now. Congrats on the birth of Lucas xx
 

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