Think iv changed my mind ,

[noshowjo]

Think iv changed my mind about my mil coming in with me and husband , and I'll tell u why .. My husband being a right tit ..
I get stressed really easily at the minute and the other day he put so much on my head ,, I asked him to handle one thing and he still put it on me to deal with . So I shouted at him and then called him a arse hole . Whilst his mum was here . And he deserved it ...
So when she leaves he goes oh I'm so embarrassed by your behaviour in front of my mum ...
So now I'm thinking in labour you shout , you get cross . Ect ect am I gonna be worried cause his mother there . Uuuurrgghh I'm stressed .

 

[Leesy]

If having mil in the delivery room (anyone for that matter) is going to stress you out you are well within your rights to refuse them being there. Even if you have previously told her she can come a simple I've changed my mind is all the reason she needs. If DH has an issue with it he needs to put himself in your shoes. This is all about YOU and your comfort.

 

[jeanyern123]

talk to mil?