This is how it happened to me....

[HkLiz]

I started lightly bleeding saturday night..At first it was brown, and then a little red. and then it went away, and then sunday around 3 ish it was back, and red, and there was a lot of it.. I spent hours in the hospital, being poked and touched.. and other horrible things... for them to tell me that they're not sure what happened to me.

Basically it's a "threatened" miscarriage. Meaning it could either be a miscarriage and I already passed the sac, because nothing is showing up on the ultrasound, or it's just too early and that's why they can't see anything, and the bleeding is normal. To be honest, I think that they just said the second option to try and made me feel better. But I don't. I passed the sac, I know I did. I saw it there in the toilet...

So what happens next is more blood tests to see if my levels go up, and if not, then i miscarried.. if they are doubled, then it's a normal pregnancy...

Mikey's really upset... I don't know how to help him when all I want to do it cry..

Bad things come in 3's.. First conner dies, then my grandpa, and now my baby.

 

[Marg_27]

Oh hunni, sounds like youve had ur fair share of bad luck!
I will keep my fingers crossed for u, even tho u feel it prob is bad news
Sending u massive hugd, and hoping everything will turb out for the best!!!!
Ive recently had a mc, and kno what ur goin thru! so if u need to talk, Im here x

 

[NickyT75]

Sorry to hear this hun xx

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

dont let back luck beat you hun... it follows me like a bad smell but i WONT let it win..
dont you let it win. unforchantly bad things happen to good people.
i wish you all the luck in the world hunni
xxx

 

[todteach]

I'm so sorry hun. Let us know if there is anything we can do for you.

 

[Snowball]

I'm so sorry hun

 

[sam's mum]

I'm so sorry x

 

[Barneyboo]

So sorry x x x x

 

[WelshGirl]

So sorry hun

 

[lmac1]

I really feel for you. I went through the exact same thing a week ago, being poked and prodded and having blood taken. I too was told to go back to get my levels checked again, but i already knew, like i think you do, that it wasn't to be this time.

the hurt is beyond words and only those that have been through what you have can truly understand. It's hard to get past the 'why me' stage and even harder to accept that sometimes, really crappy things happen to good people. Don't beat yourself up for feeling like you hate the world right now, that's allowed! Keep your chin up chick and try to stay positive. I know it feels like the entire world is against you and every second person you see is either nursing a bump or a healthy baby. Just keep aiming for the day when it WILL happen, that's all we can do. Cuddle your man and share your pain with him, he'll be feeling it too. I truly wish you all the luck in the world and hope everything works out for you. I know how you're feeling so i'm here if you want to talk.

 

[Chris77]

I am so very sorry for your loss.

 

[SJK]

sorry xx

 

[bambikate]

I'm so sorry x x