This is the worst valentines day ever.........

[KatyKat]

So, at 13 weeks and 3 days (according to the dating scan) we finally felt brave enough to tell our 3 year old that we were expecting a baby this afternoon, and then what goes and happens this evening, more blood!!!!!

4 years ago today I miscarried our second pregnancy, and now I might be losing this one too. It's so unfair I just want to scream and shout at someone, and worst of all it's the bloody weekend and we won't even be able to get a scan till Monday at the earliest. I don't know how I'm going to get through this weekend.

 

[ttclou25]

Surely as your so far along and your bleeding they will scan you sooner. If not can u go private??

Don't think your out my bf has lots of red clotting bleeding at 12 weeks thought it was end but ages due to give birth this week.

Not nice to have this, as a child you just think you get pg have a baby end of, what some woman go through is just so unfair. Xx

 

[KatyKat]

By some miracle I found a private clinic in Newcastle with a free slot for a scan this morning as the NHS seem pretty much unwilling/unable to scan on a weekend. Just need to put my mind at rest either way

 

[CastawayBride]

I truly hope for you that everything is ok!!

 

[ttclou25]

Let us know how you get on

 

[Kasey84]

Sending lots of positive thoughts your way! Hope you get good news

 

[Linnypops]

Hope it all goes ok - i'm sure it will - some people end up having bleeds even into 2nd tri and it's still fine. Let us know! x

 

[KatyKat]

Well, happily everything is once again ok with the monkey. There is still no clue as to what has caused the bleeding and I'm thinking this is going to be one very long pregnancy if this continues. I swear I have obtained some grey hairs as a result of all this

I'm starting to think I would like to be put to sleep until the baby is actually due just to preserve what little sanity I have left.

Thanks for all your kind thoughts and words

 

[george83]

I'm glad everything turned out ok. I'm not if I replied to another of your threads or a lady who was in a similar situation but I had bleeding on and off throughout the first 14 weeks with my rainbow it was horrible and like you I couldn't stand the thought of spending 9 months like that! Luckily everything started to calm down around 15/16 weeks and my little boy is now 5 weeks old so I'm hoping everything settles down for you too now x x

 

[KatyKat]

I'm glad everything turned out ok. I'm not if I replied to another of your threads or a lady who was in a similar situation but I had bleeding on and off throughout the first 14 weeks with my rainbow it was horrible and like you I couldn't stand the thought of spending 9 months like that! Luckily everything started to calm down around 15/16 weeks and my little boy is now 5 weeks old so I'm hoping everything settles down for you too now x x

God I hope so. I seem to spend all my time these days on knicker watch, it's depressing!!!!

I'm back to spotting after the last bleed and I can't wait for it to just stop, even though I know it's going to take a day or two it's driving me crazy.....

It would be nice if it would all settle down down and I could have the rest of this pregnancy without any more bleeding, it's just too bloody stressful.....

 

[george83]

I'm glad everything turned out ok. I'm not if I replied to another of your threads or a lady who was in a similar situation but I had bleeding on and off throughout the first 14 weeks with my rainbow it was horrible and like you I couldn't stand the thought of spending 9 months like that! Luckily everything started to calm down around 15/16 weeks and my little boy is now 5 weeks old so I'm hoping everything settles down for you too now x x

God I hope so. I seem to spend all my time these days on knicker watch, it's depressing!!!!

I'm back to spotting after the last bleed and I can't wait for it to just stop, even though I know it's going to take a day or two it's driving me crazy.....

It would be nice if it would all settle down down and I could have the rest of this pregnancy without any more bleeding, it's just too bloody stressful.....

I genuinely hated it and then you get to 9 months pregnant and do it all again waiting for labour signs, we're never happy!