time to say the unwanted goodbye ... no not pregnant!

[mom and ttc]

Sooo... my husband is in the military and got new orders, for February next year, he has to extent for a job and wont be at home march thru end of june. if he misses that job bc of a baby it would hurt his carreer so after a long talk yesterday we are going to NTNP, and i really want a baby now, so i hope i can cope with this... good bye!!! but i will still look around here and answer if i can

 

[LittleBird]

Good luck! Everything will be ok, either way.

 

[MermaidMom]

oh bummers =( we were in a similar position last year after our first miscarriage and we decided to go ahead and try anyway. i wanted to wait (for my husbands sake mostly), but he said that he just wanted a baby alive in the world that he knew was his... and that he'd be okay if he missed the birth. we ended up not getting pregnant anyway, but i really felt that i could do it all alone with how shook up i was about losing our first. now that everythings said and done im glad i wont be having our first while he's deployed. i admire so many of the military spouses who do though... what courage!