Truly confused.

[baby_bear1]

Hello fellow ladies!

So I have an odd situation. I've missed my AF by 5 days today. I was supposed to see her on 11/9. But still nothing. My significant other and I did the baby dance quite a lot (TMI, sorry) before my expected period, and I've been so consumed in work I totally forgot to track my ovulation.

Well sometime before AF was supposed to arrive, it was about 3 or 4 in the morning so I went to potty, and i'm half asleep and take a glance at the TP and see a SLIGHTLY pink discharge I didn't think anything about it till I got to work later on in the day.

Well here for the past 4 days I've had a thick white creamy discharge. Instead of AF. It doesn't stink, doesn't hurt to urinate, nothing. Just discharge every few trips to the bathroom. I've also had slight cramps. Well, not really cramps. Just slight pressure that doesn't last long, but its enough to be felt. Part of me feels like this is really it, that I'm finally pregnant, but I'm scared that's just my hopes getting up. I haven't really thought about it this month, because I've been working so much.

I just wanted someones input or so, or even if someone had the same thing happen and got a BFP? I have a test waiting on me in the closet, lol. i'm just too nervous to get my heart broken if it says BFN. Anyone have anything similar??

 

[baby_bear1]

no one??

 

[abennion]

The only way to know for certain is to take an HPT. It could be that you ovulated later this cycle, but if youre fairly regular chances are that its not that. GL and FX!

 

[Dtrisha]

I was late 5 days for my period. Thought I was pregnant but I tested a bunch with BFN's. Then AF played tricks on me. I had brown discharge one day and then light pink the next then gradually appeared after. I was upset because I never brown spot or anything. Usually when she shows she SHOWS. But I think you should take it so you can get into the doctor invade you are. Are you having symptoms? Sore BB's or anything?

 

[baby_bear1]

Well I've had sore breasts, but not more than normal af. And it seems like af would be coming but it doesn't. This morning I woke up with an incredible amount of nausea, which really surprised me cause I only vomit when I'm sick. But nothing came up. I drank a lot of water trying to get myself to vomit but nothing came up. I've had slight headaches, but other than that nothing really out of the ordinary for af symptoms. Other than the nausea. I've never had it any other month. Today (11-16-15) makes me 9 days late.

 

[baby_bear1]

And extreme fatigue. Forgot to add that. Like I go to sleep at 8 pm the night before and get up at 5 for work at 6 and come 9 I'm ready for a 6 hour nap. Lol

 

[baby_bear1]

Update: negative on two different strip tests. One during middle of day and other with fmu. Still no af. 12 days late.

 

[Dtrisha]

Maybe call your doctor ? Or maybe you ovulated late this cycle? Do you know for sure what day you ovulated ?

 

[baby_bear1]

Well by me tracking, and a nifty app I have on my phone, i should have ovulated on the 22nd or 23rd Of october. I plan on calling my doctor monday morning when i get the chance at work, and hopefully I'll be able to get in with him Only thing is, I won't even be able to get in till Friday, cause I can't miss anymore hours at work. Poo.

 

[baby_bear1]

Last month I had a very early mc.. but it was enough to be noticed and I went to the hospital because I was in so much pain. I kept insisting they do an ultrasound but the ER doctor wasn't interested once my pee test came back negative. But I read on another forum site that it's very easy to fall pregnant once you have a mc? Has anyone else heard this?? Not too sure what my take on that is, but it gave me a little hope, haha!

 

[ThiaC]

Hi Baby bear,

I'm sure it's hard or you, not knowing what's going on.

The options are

A) Not preg, AF just late for other reasons
B) You were pregnant, but baby did not keep developing. In a while will get AF (missed miscarriage)
C) Are preg, but for some reason the tests are not showing (it's possible, some people have really low HCG. Try a blood test, if it's below 10, you're really out).

I wish I could give you some better answers, help you or make you feel better.
But that's just how these fertility issues are, there's so much that even doctors don't understand, so much research is still being done. The uncertainty kills us but we just have to go on.

 

[baby_bear1]

Thank you! Still no sign of af, but pregnancy signs increasing. Haven't bothered with another test. /: going to doctor on dec 4

 

[baby_bear1]

Going to gyno Friday at10:30. Will try to remember to update

 

[StephanieE]

Baby_bear1 was reading the comments on here and was interested to know if you had any updates! Hoping for a BFP for you!

 

[baby_bear1]

Thank you! I had an examination and the doctor I seen was just the one that was on call today. He's not the main one everyone sees. I want to go back and see the main one, because I did NOT like this one. He kept insisting it was in my head and that I just missed some sugar pills on my birth control, etc. but I demanded a blood test and ultrasound be done. I had a blood test, waiting on results to come back. Nurse said it should be Monday maybe or Tuesday for SURE. I go back next Thursday on the 10th at 10 am for an ultrasound. The tech wasn't there today, sadly. So now it's a waiting game till Tuesday and Thursday! Fingers crossed this is it!

 

[StephanieE]

FXed for you!! Please keep us updated! Think POSITIVE

 

[2ducks]

Please update us! I have not been in a similar situation as you, but I would love to hear how things turn out. I am sending positive thoughts your way!

 

[baby_bear1]

Thank y'all!! Still no sign of af whatsoever. But the waiting game till Tuesday is going to kill me ������

 

[baby_bear1]

Update: negative blood test but a nagging feeling I'm still pregnant. Today af was supposed to come. But nothing. Going to give it till January. Prayers that this will be my big bfp!! My sister in law went through the same thing but didn't find out till she was 5 months and showing finally when she got preggers with her girl and boy!!

 

[mrs.micci]

I just read though this thread, I really hope this is your BFP!!! I'll keep my FX'd for you! Do keep us posted! ^_^