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Trying Soft Cups Tonite. Anyone Have Expirience?

ces2008

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So, DH and I decided to start using Soft Cups tonight. Im already CD 16, so should ovulate soon! Really excited! Anyone have any expirience using them? Did you like them? Have they worked? Any tips?
 
hi ces yes iv used n using them now for the 2nd month are u using pre-seed? i didnt have any last month so ordering some in the morning hope they come in time before ov so believe it or not i will be using egg white 2moz cd10 heard loads of BFP stories of them, so u need to lie down an put the preseed in 10mins before sex stay led down put some preseed in the softcup about 5mil or ew after sex squeeze the cup in the middle tilt it down towards ur bottom, push it as far as it will go then push it up behind pubic bone, make sure hips propped on pillow an dont get up for atleast 20mins, u can do it during day an leave it in for 12hrs or bd at night an take it out in the morning, the only way i can get it out is to squat sorry tmi or some ppl take it out sat on loo, but i find squating less painfull
 
I used them along with preseed, and got a BFP every time except for 1 cycle. I would put the preseed before DTD and then leave the softcup overnight. I'm planning on using them again when we TTC#2 (in a few weeks/months). Hopefully they'll work as well!!
 
thanks! I do use preseed too. fingers crossed this works!
 
I really hope you get your BFP and your very own little bundle of joy:hugs:
 
Thanks! Its been a long haul. 22 months is a long time. I know some have been trying longer, but EVERYONE around me are getting pregnant. 9 pregnancy announcements in 2 months!
 
I wasn't LTTC. It didn't take too long to get pregnant (couple of months for the first time), but I kept miscarrying. I remember being jealous and sad every time someone would announce their pregnancy. Of course I was happy for them, but couldn't wait to have MY little miracle. I am so so grateful for my daughter. Hang in there:hugs:
 
I received mine yesterday but I am already in my TWW so will have to use it with my next cycle.

Im worried about inserting it! Hope I can do it :haha: :blush:

Good Luck :dust:
 
I received mine yesterday but I am already in my TWW so will have to use it with my next cycle.

Im worried about inserting it! Hope I can do it :haha: :blush:

Good Luck :dust:

They are a bit tricky at first. I panicked when I saw the size and couldn't see how the heck that thing was gonna be able to fit into my hou-ha:haha:. But it did!! It's actually very flexible so you really have to squish it in the middle to get the shape of an ''8''. It takes a couple of times but once you get the trick it's super easy to get in and it doesn't hurt.
 
I received mine yesterday but I am already in my TWW so will have to use it with my next cycle.

Im worried about inserting it! Hope I can do it :haha: :blush:

Good Luck :dust:

They are a bit tricky at first. I panicked when I saw the size and couldn't see how the heck that thing was gonna be able to fit into my hou-ha:haha:. But it did!! It's actually very flexible so you really have to squish it in the middle to get the shape of an ''8''. It takes a couple of times but once you get the trick it's super easy to get in and it doesn't hurt.

Ok thank you. I guess practice makes perfect :haha:
 
I didnt have a problem putting it in or taking it out.

Im sorry for your losses! I couldnt imagine going through that! Im glad you finally gotyour little miracle!
 
I also use them. I absolutely love them. They haven't worked so far but they are fantastic at keeping all the 'stuff' in there. You can get up and walk about with no, ahem, leakage!
Really sorry ces2008 that you've had a bit of a hard time with all the pregnancy announcements. I know how you feel but your turn will come. Xx
 
I also use them. I absolutely love them. They haven't worked so far but they are fantastic at keeping all the 'stuff' in there. You can get up and walk about with no, ahem, leakage!
Really sorry ces2008 that you've had a bit of a hard time with all the pregnancy announcements. I know how you feel but your turn will come. Xx

Thanks! I know my turn will come! Its just difficult, especially when they say things like "oops, we wernet planning on that" or "we were trying so long! it took 3 months for us to get pregnant". I know that 3 months probably seems long to them, but compared to some of us, its nothing! And then, Ive had multiple people say things like "you must be doing it wrong" "we did this, so u should try it" grr. Its like, what makes u think we havnt tried that!
 
I also use them. I absolutely love them. They haven't worked so far but they are fantastic at keeping all the 'stuff' in there. You can get up and walk about with no, ahem, leakage!
Really sorry ces2008 that you've had a bit of a hard time with all the pregnancy announcements. I know how you feel but your turn will come. Xx

Thanks! I know my turn will come! Its just difficult, especially when they say things like "oops, we wernet planning on that" or "we were trying so long! it took 3 months for us to get pregnant". I know that 3 months probably seems long to them, but compared to some of us, its nothing! And then, Ive had multiple people say things like "you must be doing it wrong" "we did this, so u should try it" grr. Its like, what makes u think we havnt tried that!

My numbskull DH asked my newly pregnant friend how long they tried for and she goes - "umm what's trying?... I dunno - a week?? teee hee" I could have smacked her and DH for even asking! I don't want to know!! :grr:
 
I also use them. I absolutely love them. They haven't worked so far but they are fantastic at keeping all the 'stuff' in there. You can get up and walk about with no, ahem, leakage!
Really sorry ces2008 that you've had a bit of a hard time with all the pregnancy announcements. I know how you feel but your turn will come. Xx

Thanks! I know my turn will come! Its just difficult, especially when they say things like "oops, we wernet planning on that" or "we were trying so long! it took 3 months for us to get pregnant". I know that 3 months probably seems long to them, but compared to some of us, its nothing! And then, Ive had multiple people say things like "you must be doing it wrong" "we did this, so u should try it" grr. Its like, what makes u think we havnt tried that!

My numbskull DH asked my newly pregnant friend how long they tried for and she goes - "umm what's trying?... I dunno - a week?? teee hee" I could have smacked her and DH for even asking! I don't want to know!! :grr:

:gun: I have a friend who is struggling with Infertility also. Her brother and his new wife are now pregnant, and she thinks its ok to try to tell my friend how to get pregnant. Its like, How dare you say stuff like that when you don't know the Heartbreak that comes with Inferltility@Q
 
I also use them. I absolutely love them. They haven't worked so far but they are fantastic at keeping all the 'stuff' in there. You can get up and walk about with no, ahem, leakage!
Really sorry ces2008 that you've had a bit of a hard time with all the pregnancy announcements. I know how you feel but your turn will come. Xx

Thanks! I know my turn will come! Its just difficult, especially when they say things like "oops, we wernet planning on that" or "we were trying so long! it took 3 months for us to get pregnant". I know that 3 months probably seems long to them, but compared to some of us, its nothing! And then, Ive had multiple people say things like "you must be doing it wrong" "we did this, so u should try it" grr. Its like, what makes u think we havnt tried that!

My numbskull DH asked my newly pregnant friend how long they tried for and she goes - "umm what's trying?... I dunno - a week?? teee hee" I could have smacked her and DH for even asking! I don't want to know!! :grr:

:gun: I have a friend who is struggling with Infertility also. Her brother and his new wife are now pregnant, and she thinks its ok to try to tell my friend how to get pregnant. Its like, How dare you say stuff like that when you don't know the Heartbreak that comes with Inferltility@Q

Ppl have no clue. :growlmad: that girl I mentioned knows about our problems and knows I'm having a hard time with it. Her attitude toward me is like - what's your problem? Get over it. Easy to say when you know you can preg at the drop of a hat.

Anyways... Softcups! Lol! I like em. :thumbup:
 
lol! ive only used them once. gonna again tonite. but i dont mind them so gonna keep using them! got my pos opk today, so gotta get at least one more BD session in before O!
 
I have pcos and my husband and I have been trying for going on 7 years. I got my very 1st bfp in aug 2012 on my second cycle of clomid, pre seed and soft cups. My 1st cycle of clomid I did ovulate for sure, and I used pre seed. The only thing I did different the 2nd time was add the soft cups which I believe firmly in! I sadly miscarried at 6 1/2 weeks though :(
 
I have pcos and my husband and I have been trying for going on 7 years. I got my very 1st bfp in aug 2012 on my second cycle of clomid, pre seed and soft cups. My 1st cycle of clomid I did ovulate for sure, and I used pre seed. The only thing I did different the 2nd time was add the soft cups which I believe firmly in! I sadly miscarried at 6 1/2 weeks though :(

SO so sorry for your loss!
 

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