TwoAngels
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Hi This is my first time on a blog and thought maybe it would be good for me to express my feelings with people who have gone through what I have. I am 21yrs old and married. The first time I found out I was expecting was Sept. 2009, I felt fine and all. Reason I found out was because I had just finished mensturating 2 weeks before then all of a sudden I started again so I went to the doctors to check it out and she came back with a positive pregnancy test (6 weeks). I was like what how if I just had my period 2 weeks ago and why am I bleeding if I am? Doctor responded its normal implantation, plactena attaching who knows what blah blah..I thought this is bull and she sent me home. Well a not even a week later I ended up going to the ER because I did not want to feel guilty if I ended up miscarrying knowing I did not do anything to find out what was wrong. So finally at the ER the doctors checked me said cervix was closed everything looked fine nothing abnormal, even sent me for ultrasound. Finally he tells me that they saw no baby no sac but that they could see something up in the right corner of my uterus and said that was the baby and it was growing the wrong place. I was given a Methotraxate shot and I expelled it.That miscarriage was called an ectopic pregnancy. Fast forward...sometime in September we started trying to conceive and in November I found out I was pregnant for the second time (8 weeks). That time around I was scared but I decided early on I would not let it get to me so I continued & I waited the first 12 weeks before I told anyone. @ 14wks Which I remember very clearly as a living nightmare. It was a Friday night when my Husband and I decided to go maternity clothes shopping when after arriving home I went pee and when I wiped I had spotting but this time it was brown which I thought it not unusal since I had been spotting very lightly pink and doctors said it was from the uterus stretching. I called after hours advice nurse line and they pretty much put me to the side and told me to call back when they werent busy!! I was heated so I thought well I'll just go to the ER when I take my mom to work in the morning (Mom works @ hospital). Morning never came...that night I was tossing and turning unable to sleep and get comfy. I kept having very light stomach cramps which I mistook for bowl movements cramps. I kept feeling the need to use the bathroom and nothing would happen. Finally I went back to bed and I tried to get back to sleep but I quickly got up because I had the same bathroom feeling again and as soon as I sat up in bed to tell my husband lets go to ER, I can no longer wait something is wrong. Suddenly a gush of water expelled and I shot out running to get to ER. Finally @ 0300 I miscarried for the SECOND time. Doctors did ultrasound and saw it then when they did it again they did not so then they did and vaginal ultrasound and saw that the baby had come down to canal. They then pulled it out when some tongs. My poor Husband witnessed it all he was pretty tramautized seeing our baby just lying there dead. After that I asked for answers NONE. I asked for tested and they said you need to have two more of the same kind of miscarriage @ second trimester for us to consider a specialist!..I cannot believe it. They said because one miscarriage was Ectopic and the second one was fine and unexpectedly end @ second trimester. We will start trying again in December. Any tips? I plan on taking pre-natals now. Any tips or advice is welcomed.
Thank you for taking the time to read my story.
Thank you for taking the time to read my story.