TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[pip7890]

Hello ladies, Pip here. The mods have kindly let me take over this post so that I can update the page in Hayley's absence. I've left Hayley's message below and will start updating the list now.

Hey ladies there are so many off us who have lost angels and had hard time lets discuss all aspects of this in this group I hope you all find this useful

So here we go im Hayley im 27 and have just suffered my 3rd loss on 18th dec 2010 hoping and praying for a 2011

whos with me??

I will keep updates on all bfp from this group so keep me posted xx



1babylost EDD 12 December 2011

9babiesgone

Allmuddledup Isadora Jean Walsh born 1.25 am on 28 February 2012 weighing 7lb 7oz

Angelface

Ann89

Babyboyle

Babyhopes2010 Freya Ellen born on 18 November 2011 weighing 9lb 3oz

babysimpson

Becci_Boo86

Bellasmummy Indie born on 10 November 2011

BFPSeeker

Blueeyedgirl1

Cazi77

Deethehippy MiniWig

Embo78

Emilyrose.x Isabella Mia Brown born 5.24 am on 11 March 2012 weighing 9lb 8oz

FallenAmbers

Gash02 Blake Johnston-Miller born 10.34 am on 8 September 2011 weighing 7lbs

HayleyJJ

Inoue

JaiJaiS

Jenny25

Jessalex26

joey300187 Harrison Michael Green born 10.32 pm on 28 October 2011 weighing 7lbs 9ozs

Kaede351 Harrison John Fillier born 4.18 pm on 28 February 2012 weighing 7lbs 10oz

laura_2010 twins team and

laurah8279

Lilrojo Bryce Jarret Dalton born 8.08 pm on 15 February 2012 weighing 6lb 6oz

LiSa2010

littlegemx

Madrid98

mami2karina Giovanni born 10.05 am on 16 September 2011 weighing 5lbs 11.6ozs

MissBabyFace

MrsMandbump

Mumatmadhouse

Mummyk2b

Neffie EDD January 2012

Pickleton

pinkflamingo

Pip7890 Andrew William born at 10.36 pm on 9 November 2011 weighing 6lb 10oz

PJ32

poppy666 Serenity Rose born at 2.45 am on 3 November 2011 weighing 6lb 14oz

Puppycat

Random

RIPBABYRENEE

Ruskiegirl

SuffolkSarah EDD 6 March 2012

Superstoked

Susan36

Suze Oscar Joseph born 6.08 pm on 1 November 2011 weighing 8lbs 6ozs

sweetlissa

Tweedy

Wantingagirl

x.angel.x

xSamanthax Scott-Antonio born 4.37 am on 22 November 2011 weighing 9lbs

 

[pip7890]

Hi Hayley

I'm with you!

I'm Karen, aged 40 (just) and TTC #2 after having Mirena coil removed on 18 October. in first cycle NTNP but unfortunately miscarried on Boxing Day at 10w 3d after contracting swine flu.

Looking forward to a happier Christmas in 2011.

Pip x

 

[BellasMummy]

Hi again Hayley!

I would love to join!

I have a little girl already and had 1st MC on 20th Dec

I am hoping to try again straight away! So need to start

FX'd for us all!

 

[pip7890]

Thank you to whoever put us in the right place.

Welcome Bella'sMummy. I'm sorry about your loss.

I thought it might be a good idea to list some reasons to be cheerful:

(1) Although I've had 2 miscarriages, I did have one pregnancy that went to 38 weeks and resulted in my gorgeous son who is now 14 years old
(2) Each time I have TTC or NTNP I have got a within 2 cycles
(3) I got a immediately I had the Mirena coil removed in October
(4) I got ovulation pains when I had the last Mirena (previous 3 years) and certainly had lots of EWCM prior to this last pregnancy
(5) I have lots of support and love from my friends and family about our decision to TTC (more so than when I was 25 and TTC)
(6) 40 is the new 30 (or so I'm told)!!!

What reasons do you have to be cheerful?

Pip x

 

[pip7890]

**bump**

 

[emilyrose.x]

Hey Ladies!
Hope its okay i join

I had my first pregnancy which sadly ended in a MC on 18/12/2010..
Me and my OH want to start trying as soon as I get the 'all clear' from the hospital
Hoping for a in 2011!!

Em x

 

[pip7890]

Hi Emily

Glad you can join us. Another 'familiar' face.

Pip x

 

[emilyrose.x]

Thanks Pip
Think this group a great idea!!

Em x

 

[pip7890]

We're having problems getting this thread to update in the TTCAL forum. It was set up as a group in the Lounge > TTC area. Hopefully we'll get it resolved soon and we'll be able to welcome more members on board.

In the meantime, if you know how to make it update in the TTCAL forum, feel free to PM me or HayleyJJ (the thread starter).

Pip x

 

[BellasMummy]

Hi Pip!

So sorry for you loss

Well I am feeling excited and nervous! I also have lots to be cheerful for and I totally believe that things happen for a reason!

I have a gorgeous little girl who brings me so much happiness.

Both times that I have got pregnant it has been within 2 cycles.

Have the best hubby who has given me the best support.

I have a good feeling that it is going to happen soon! FX'd for us all!!

xxxx

 

[pip7890]

Thanks Pip
Think this group a great idea!!

Em x

Hayley and I agree. There are some great support groups out there for ladies TTC. However, they are either new groups for those TTC who have never experienced loss, or TTCAL groups which have been going some time.

Unfortunately there have been a few of us who experiencing loss this December and we felt there would be enough of us to form a group to journey through 2011 together.

So, here's hoping we are all a bunch of fertile myrtles in 2011 and are sprinkled with

Pip x

 

[emilyrose.x]

I wish i knew how too hun but to be honest this is the first forum i have ever joined, wish i could of helped! Il ask my OH to see if he knows how to do it lol! If he knows il give you two a shout straight away
Hope you get it fixed soon hun

Fingers Crossed We All Get Our 2011 !!!

Em x

 

[pip7890]

Well I am feeling excited and nervous! I also have lots to be cheerful for and I totally believe that things happen for a reason!

Both times that I have got pregnant it has been within 2 cycles.

That's great news!

Have the best hubby who has given me the best support.

Makes such a difference doesn't it?

I have a good feeling that it is going to happen soon! FX'd for us all!

Me too!

Pip x

 

[pip7890]

We were just comparing reasons to be cheerful Em. What's yours?

Pip x

 

[emilyrose.x]

From when i came off the pill and me and my OH started trying it only took 4 cycles

My OH is very supportive and i know i can talk to him about anything

I am currently building our house (checking the builders have done all the work and decorating) so know we can settle down and be secure

I am the same as BellasMummy with being so excited about the thought of getting pregnant but nervous incase it could happen again - but i WILL stay possitive

My parents and whole family have looked after me brilliantly through the whole process ..

Just really overal amazed by how much support i have really

Joining this site is defo one of the best things i have done, you ladies have been so helpful and really helped me when i needed to talk to someone

Em xx

 

[pip7890]

From when i came off the pill and me and my OH started trying it only took 4 cycles

My OH is very supportive and i know i can talk to him about anything

I am currently building our house (checking the builders have done all the work and decorating) so know we can settle down and be secure

I am the same as BellasMummy with being so excited about the thought of getting pregnant but nervous incase it could happen again - but i WILL stay possitive

My parents and whole family have looked after me brilliantly through the whole process ..

Just really overal amazed by how much support i have really

Joining this site is defo one of the best things i have done, you ladies have been so helpful and really helped me when i needed to talk to someone

Em xx

Having support makes such a difference. In my first two pregnancies my friends and families reaction was really poor. Yet I was 24, had a good job, own home etc but I got so little support. I was really nervous about telling them this time (thought they'd think I was mad coming up to 40 with a 14 year old son) but they've been brilliant.

I've always thought my OH and I had a good relationship, but I have seen another positive side of him since the m/c. I'm quite an independent person (I brought my DS up by myself for 7 years after my divorce) yet the m/c has really relaxed my defences where my OH is concerned.

The other good thing is definitely this site. I'm not an avid poster, but I do lurk and post where I can be constructive. I was not aware of anything like this when I m/c in 1995, but it has really helped me this time around. I don't feel like the odd one out any more and it gives me such hope for the future.

Pip x

 

[HayleyJJ]

welcome all sorry had some hubby time!! first time since mc and was lovely to get back to ttc and feel close again

 

[HayleyJJ]

cheerful reasons - to have friends in the same position meaning you guys and that we can all talk about cm boobs and sex without looking weird hehe

 

[pip7890]

I could do with some OH time. Ah well he's back home tomorrow.

I've just got to post a question in m/c forum and then I am switching this damn phone off and heading to sleep.

Pip x

 

[emilyrose.x]

Yea Pip it makes a hugee difference feel so lucky, he knows how too cheer me up on thoses days where i feel like i cant even smile which is a extra plus
I think thats really inspiring knowing that women can do it on there own but even better knowing that you can be really close with someone too so happy everything went well for you hun
Yea it definatley gives us all hope and faith, especially knowing we can all help eachother out x

HayleyJJ - haha>> "meaning that we can all talk about cm boobs and sex without looking weird" this made me chuckle

xx