TTC first baby..Anxious, depressed and emotional!!!

[Bumblebee88]

Hey everyone,

My husband of 2 years and I are trying for our first baby. I am 26, my husband is 30. I had my period on the 2nd sept until 5th. My cycle is normally 28 days long. We BD every other day during my fertile week (using Glow app). Here are my symptoms...

CD 17 My breast were really sore and was VERY gassy. I had random thigh cramps on the 5-8dpo.

At 7DPO I started to have the 1x pin prick bleed that was on the TP. This then started on 9DPO just one tiny pin prick pinkish stop. Was that IB?!?!?!?

Since then my boobs are only slightly sore but I haven't had any other symptoms.

I've had BFN on 7,8,9,10,11 dpos (Overboard!!! haha)

I keep getting BFN, my period is meant to start on the 30th. I just feel so down about it. I never realised how much I want a baby until I started my TTC journey.

What do you think? Did I have IB bleed? should I just wait until AF is due to test?

 

[Pinkglitterx]

It does sound really good hun! FX'd for you, but none of us can really know for sure until you miss a period and get a BFP.

Although does sound like IB! And 11dpo is still early to get a BFP. some don't actually get a BFP til a week after a missed period or more! You're not out until the witch shows xx

 

[Bumblebee88]

It does sound really good hun! FX'd for you, but none of us can really know for sure until you miss a period and get a BFP.

Although does sound like IB! And 11dpo is still early to get a BFP. some don't actually get a BFP til a week after a missed period or more! You're not out until the witch shows xx

Thanks for your reply! Just getting paranoid and stressing about it. I'm not getting ANY symptoms at all...Nothing now, not even sore boobs. Just making me think it's not a pregnancy...

 

[MrsHudson]

It sounds pretty promising to me but like PP said, you're not out until you get AF. And if not, just try not to symptom spot. I know how hard it is, as I'm going through the same thing right now. Good luck!

 

[Bumblebee88]

It sounds pretty promising to me but like PP said, you're not out until you get AF. And if not, just try not to symptom spot. I know how hard it is, as I'm going through the same thing right now. Good luck!

Thank you! I already got things planned for next month if the witch turns up. Going to try sperm meets egg and properly monitor my BBT. It's all a learning curve! It's funny how school installs this IF YOU HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX YOU WILL GET PREGNANT...simply doesn't work out just as easy as that!! haha

 

[MrsHudson]

Yeah no kidding or all my friends who get pregnant without trying. Makes me angry lol.

 

[crazycatlady5]

Did you just come off bcp?

Seems like symptoms from coming off pill are similar to preg symptoms... I had all those too!

 

[Bumblebee88]

Did you just come off bcp?

Seems like symptoms from coming off pill are similar to preg symptoms... I had all those too!

Hi, No I came off BCP last year...We were Trying but not protecting method...

Just an updated (TMI) 12dpo I'm having LOADS (for me) clear/white discharge was dry as the desert yesterday, left side sharp abdo cramping and nipples are swollen! Husband made a comment on how big my breasts looked today!!! hahaha.

Tested and wait for it.....BFN!!! I think my body hates me..

 

[MrsHudson]

Aww I'm sorry. Some people can go weeks past AF without getting a BFP.

 

[Bumblebee88]

Aww I'm sorry. Some people can go weeks past AF without getting a BFP.

I got BFP at 13dpo, then an hour later a BFN. Period arrived one day late....Excited about the new month ahead, we are going to try Sperm meets the egg plan and I bought a thermometer

Good luck everyone and baby dust...xx