TTC first month and hopeful!

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TTC baby number three! Any tips are appreciated. This first month has been a roller coaster...still waiting. 8/11 dpo and 3 BFN's...

 

[TTC_FXed]

I am not sure if the tata's are hurting because AF is around the corner (~5 days). I am having thick/white CM and lots of it. This is my first month TTC this time around and I haven't previously been charting my cycle and getting familiar with my body again. I was sure I was pregnant, already bout maternity clothes, then I found I may have miscalculated when I was ovulating. Still a chance I am, but all I can do at this point is hope for the best and think positive. It is hard. Anyone have any tips or feedback? How do you keep from getting down if AF arrives as expected? This is my first planned pregnancy and I have been waiting almost 5 years to start TTC. I just want to know a baby is in the making