Ugh, people! Privacy!

[Ceejay123]

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[moderntate]

Personally I would tell them enough is enough and to stop stalking you- which in my eyes is what it is. And threaten with the police..its doubtful they would do anything but might be enough to scare them off. I would delete your facebook (more harm than good) and send weekly/monthly emails to these family members abroad with updates and photos of your little one.

 

[Jade--x]

I would actually recommend the opposite. I've had it myself. The more I tried to protect things the more ways they found to get into them..Including hacking my accounts and changing my passwords..Seriously the second I let it drop and stopped it bothering me..The better off I was for it. I never put anything on facebook or Twitter I care about these people..Or anyone else for that matter..Seeing and just thought if their lives are that rubbish they need to know everything about mine..Well I just feel sorry for them. I know how frustrating it is though I hated not having any but I became the one in control of it rather than them. Hope they stop soon.

 

[Ceejay123]

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[Rainbow82]

What an awful situation, can you change your Facebook settings so that you can't even be searched for by name/email. Also instead if refusing friend requests keep them pending, this us what I do. With any luck they will get bored eventually.

 

[Rainbow82]

Ps, I hope your son is ok, I know it's really scary to see a baby having a seizure.

 

[Bevziibubble]

I would be very annoyed being stalked like that. I think maybe you should stop putting stuff onto Facebook and twitter, I know you should be able to put on what you want but don't give them the satisfaction of knowing that all their sneakiness has paid off

 

[Donna35]

I would open up a new FB account and leave it open for them to see with absolutely NOTHING in it. Every now and then go into it and put something random, the weather is crap today, my dinner was lovely just normal 'boring' stuff. No photos, no nothing and have your own one either totally off the scale private so they can't even search for it or else deleted altogether. hen they might leave you alone as they'll think they have access to your 'real' account.

 

[R_x]

I bet you feel so uncomftable (sorry that's awful spelling)
Hope they leave you alone soon

 

[Ceejay123]

Thank you guys x. I think I'm going I confront them, threaten them with the police. They're cowards if they're not hidden behind a computer. X

 

[Ceejay123]

I've figured out how they were watching my Facebook and put a stop to it. I'm praying they didn't have access to my photo's. I don't think they did.. i pray they didn't. I can't bare the thought of them having photos of my LO they've never met up in their home. I know they were desperate for pictures of my OH's older son, and desperate for scan photos when I was pregnant. Makes me shudder.

I protected my tweets for a few days, now I've completely deleted everything off it. No photos, nothing important. I'm putting nothing discriminating on there, they can have the miniscule pieces of information they want - Like what I'm eating for dinner. Sad pathetic people. ^^

So I'm hoping they don't know I'm on here.. If they're using the Facebook i think that they were, it would explain how they know my son had seizures. I've re-blocked them, here's hoping they go away and i don't turn my phone on when I'm home from Germany to texts from them. x

 

[Emma&Freya]

On the off case that they do find you on here Id change your display picture with one of not you on it xx

 

[Ceejay123]

I will do x

 

[Tegans Mama]

On the off case that they do find you on here Id change your display picture with one of not you on it xx

This x hope you sort it