thestarsfall
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So I had an HSG done on March 19 which was CD 11. The previous cycle was 34 days and the one before that was 41 days. I am now CD 40 and have had no clear signs of a fertile window at all (I would get a day some slippery, creamy cm and then next day sticky and then next day nothing and then next day creamy and stretchy but not slippery etc...nothing clear cut and I have normally gotten 2-3 days of abundant obvious ewcm).
I took a test last saturday and it was BFN, but I have no idea where I am in my cycle or if I ovulated so it wasn't depressing or anything. My longest cycle of the past year has been that 41 day one so I've got 2 days before I am actually fully late, but my apps all have me late already. And that 41 day one I still had a clear cut fertile window and AF showed 14 days later.
So I have no idea what is up really.
Symptoms:
- I was having a lot of the creamy lotiony cm, but it was stretchy ish and white/offwhite cloudy...not like my usual fertile or pre af cm at all.
- noticing smells a lot more (but I have a pretty acute sense of smell anyway)
- sore ish nips started a day or two ago (usually I have sore nips right after O and then get full blown sore achy boobs for PMS, but that might have to do with the amount of caffeine I was drinking and I cut that back hugely) and theyre like phantom pain...like it hurts but if I touch them it doesn't hurt...it's weird
- stretching/muscle tightness feeling behind my hipbones, if i run/walk briskly
- slightly more tired than usual, and occasional nausea waves but I would normally get that or like think I have it enough that it's actually there usually...
I hate when you've been TTC for so long that you a) can't "relax and let it happen" and b) know all the symptoms and can think yourself into having them and then you don't trust your body.
The weirdest thing this cycle so far is a couple weeks ago I had my usual "AF is coming in the morning" issue of being super uncomfortable and having a horrible sleep (it's a weird specific thing where I can't get comfy in a specific way it's hard to describe) and then had a bunch of cramps and diarrhea which normally is what I get the night of AF if it comes in the morning or the first night after it starts. I forget what day that was though.
I took a test last saturday and it was BFN, but I have no idea where I am in my cycle or if I ovulated so it wasn't depressing or anything. My longest cycle of the past year has been that 41 day one so I've got 2 days before I am actually fully late, but my apps all have me late already. And that 41 day one I still had a clear cut fertile window and AF showed 14 days later.
So I have no idea what is up really.
Symptoms:
- I was having a lot of the creamy lotiony cm, but it was stretchy ish and white/offwhite cloudy...not like my usual fertile or pre af cm at all.
- noticing smells a lot more (but I have a pretty acute sense of smell anyway)
- sore ish nips started a day or two ago (usually I have sore nips right after O and then get full blown sore achy boobs for PMS, but that might have to do with the amount of caffeine I was drinking and I cut that back hugely) and theyre like phantom pain...like it hurts but if I touch them it doesn't hurt...it's weird
- stretching/muscle tightness feeling behind my hipbones, if i run/walk briskly
- slightly more tired than usual, and occasional nausea waves but I would normally get that or like think I have it enough that it's actually there usually...
I hate when you've been TTC for so long that you a) can't "relax and let it happen" and b) know all the symptoms and can think yourself into having them and then you don't trust your body.
The weirdest thing this cycle so far is a couple weeks ago I had my usual "AF is coming in the morning" issue of being super uncomfortable and having a horrible sleep (it's a weird specific thing where I can't get comfy in a specific way it's hard to describe) and then had a bunch of cramps and diarrhea which normally is what I get the night of AF if it comes in the morning or the first night after it starts. I forget what day that was though.
