UPDATED !!!! Please can someone give me some sort of advice :(

[nyomi1990]

Please dont read and run..

Hi, I found out I was pregnant again 2 days ago after trying since a miscarriage in august. Nurse thinks I may have had a missed miscarriage back in november aswell but I dont know as the cramps i suffered have been like that every time Ive had a period since. Basically they are like having a miscarriage .

So anyways I spotted the day I took the test. I was thinking maybe it could be implantation bleeding so I was all excited. Im due on today or tomorrow, and Ive been spotting since about 3 hours ago and had a few mild cramps more like a feeling of really bad trapped wind. Not painful.

But Im so scared. My last pregnancy I lost the baby at 5 weeks due to it stopping growing but I didnt naturally miscarry untill 8. weeks and 5 days so I was left with a infection afterwards.

Im so scared. I cant stop stressing out. Until last night I was excited and wanted too stay that way and now i cant. I cant stop thinking the worst.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated ?? xxx

 

[Mom2mmcjg]

I'm so sorry, hun. I've been through 3 losses, so I know how painful they are.
With your history, the spotting and cramping doesn't sound like a good sign, but sometimes spotting means nothing. I would retest in the morning and see if the line is getting darker or lighter. If the line is still dark then give the OB a call. God bless.

 

[Hopin4AGirl]

I had a miscarriage last week at 10.5 weeks. I didn't have any signs until the day before my first appointment a week ago.
It's hard to know if your symptoms are a bad sign or normal pregnancy.
If you went to the doctor they could test your hcg level a day apart to ensure that the levels are rising at a normal rate. That should help put your mind at ease.
It's probably way too early for a vaginal ultrasound to show anything that will give you answers.
Wish I had better answers for. Best of luck to you.

 

[nyomi1990]

Thanks girls. Sadly the earliest I can get too the doctors is monday. If i get any serious period like cramps Ill get straight in touch with my out of hours and see what they say. Thanks xx

 

[3xscharmer]

Good luck honey and sorry you are going through this, I agree that you need to get your hcg tested to see if your levels are rising...in the meantime you might try taking a couple of pregnancy tests to see if the lines are darker, but remember it usually takes 2-3 days for the lines to get darker! Hope everything is okay!

 

[nyomi1990]

Hi by the looks of it girls Im miscarrying only thing i dont get is that Im bleeding. Sometimes heavy but not more than a usual mild to heavy period. Im cramping every now and again and they can hurt but they dont even seem to be as bad as my period cramps. I cant see my doctor till monday and because am not in a serious amount of pain Im trying to stay positive. I know that theres a high chance of miscarriage outcome, But ive spoken to my mum who said she cramped severly and bled a lot everytime she was due on, And right now would be my usual period.

I kind off keep wandering whether theres any chance of it ,...

I think me being positive is stopping me from becoming more upset or even angry at everything.

Thanks Ill keep yous updated.

nyomi xxx