Vasectomy Reversal - anyone have any happyending to cheer me up?!

[obe]

My story in a nut shell:

I met my oh, he'd been married and had a vasectomy after having children with his ex wife. So I knew this from the start and had the conversation of kids, marridge etc. I have no children of my own, and at the time I was'nt too concerned about having children, although I knew I would want them one day. Now here I am, and its all I think about!!!
He had a reversal over a year ago, tests have shown his swimmers arent too great . Ive had all my bloods and scans done and now we are just waiting for our doctor to send us on to a FS. I was really hoping we wouldnt have to go down the road of ICSI, but it looks like we are heading that way.
I have good days and bad days, and just want to fall pregnant so much but feel like its never going to happen !
On top of it all, we are not entitled to any help on the NHS so we need to fund the treatment ourself, and im worried if it doesnt work we really arent going to b able to afford to keep trying.
My oh is very supportive and feels quilty for me having to go through this, I do love him to bits but in the back of my mind im worried one day I will start to resent him for having the snip.
Its a constant battle of trying to stay positive and see the bigger picture. I dont have much support as Ive kept it between us and a few close friends.
Please can anyone tell me if they have, or no someone who has been in the same position?

 

[jonnanne3]

Obe..... My ex husband had a vasectomy right after the birth of our son in 1992. We seperated in 1995 and he had it reversed in 1997 and immediately got his girlfriend pregnant. She had her son in 1998. He also has another son that he had with another girl 4 years ago. (Don't get me started on that story! He is a slut..... hence the divorce!) So there are some sucess stories out there.
Good luck to you! Sending you some

 

[JJF]

I have no experience but didn't want to read and run. I'm sorry it hasn't worked for you so far but I'm hoping that once you see the FS, perhaps it will just be one of the easier procedures where they just help the swimmers get to the eggs and it will be a sucess. Good luck to you!

 

[obe]

Thanks ladies,
Jonnanne3- Im glad to hear that your ex still went on to have a baby (obviously not glad that you have had a bit of a shit time with him!) but its good to know that it can happen.
JJF - Hope we get to see the FS soon and we arent waiting for ever! Thanks for your support

 

[sukisam]

Obe
sorry no good news to report yet, my hubby had his reversal in May, we're going to wait until September when my dissertation is handed in to try I couldn't face potential morning sickness and writing 20,000 word dissertation + working full-time!!! I've booked us a surprise weekend in Ibiza end of September (booked to fit in with me ovulating!!) I'll let you know if we succeed. There was a lady on here who's hubby had a reversal in January and she got pregnant in the March which I think was her first month of trying if you go into pregnancy announcements and search vasectomy reversals her story should come up.
If you need to vent your felings you've come to the right place!!! I'm dying to to have another baby and this is the only place my crazy baby wanting female mad hormones appears to be normal!!!!!
Finger crossed you and your hubby get a after seeing the FS
Good luck
sending you
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[obe]

Good luck with the dissertation sukisam!
Hope you get that BFP in Ibiza, great Idea!!!
Just waiting for to see the FS now, I called my doctor on Friday to make sue she had sent the referral letter. Hope we dont have to wait too long!!

 

[poppycock]

I'm still waiting. DH had a reversal in October. Nothing yet. fingers crossed though...

 

[obe]

I'm still waiting. DH had a reversal in October. Nothing yet. fingers crossed though...

How did the reversal go poppycock?