IndieGirl
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I gave birth to my daughter almost 2 months ago at 19weeks 4days. I lost her due to infection.
I'm a cashier at a grocery store, and I see atleast 3 pregnant women a day when I work. Today I saw a woman who was a couple days past her due date. I know I shouldn't have said anything ,but I told her she was lucky. She kinda laughed it off. I didn't tell her why I thought she was lucky because I know that it would make her feel bad.. and it would be inappropriate for me to do.
Not long after she left my line, I started to cry a little bit. =/ My boyfriend txt'd me at work asking how it was going. I replied Eh, okay. Of course he asked why I said eh.. and I told him I got upset because I saw the full term pregnant woman.
His response was " babe you really need to move on , toughen up, and realize life is full of pregnant women and children."
I told him not to hate... then he said "Who said anything about hating? It's called reality and most people live in it"
I'm so mad at him. I don't cry everytime I see a pregnant woman. I'm grieving the loss of our baby girl. I miss her so much.. and I just feel jealous of other ladies who have kids and/or are pregnant. Abigail was my first child and I lost her.
I know guys grieve differently than women.
The first couple weeks after her death he was there for me and was very supportive. Now, if I show any sign of grief I get told I need to move on.
I am.....It's not like I stopped working. I feel so angry right now.
I'm a cashier at a grocery store, and I see atleast 3 pregnant women a day when I work. Today I saw a woman who was a couple days past her due date. I know I shouldn't have said anything ,but I told her she was lucky. She kinda laughed it off. I didn't tell her why I thought she was lucky because I know that it would make her feel bad.. and it would be inappropriate for me to do.
Not long after she left my line, I started to cry a little bit. =/ My boyfriend txt'd me at work asking how it was going. I replied Eh, okay. Of course he asked why I said eh.. and I told him I got upset because I saw the full term pregnant woman.
His response was " babe you really need to move on , toughen up, and realize life is full of pregnant women and children."
I told him not to hate... then he said "Who said anything about hating? It's called reality and most people live in it"
I'm so mad at him. I don't cry everytime I see a pregnant woman. I'm grieving the loss of our baby girl. I miss her so much.. and I just feel jealous of other ladies who have kids and/or are pregnant. Abigail was my first child and I lost her.
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The first couple weeks after her death he was there for me and was very supportive. Now, if I show any sign of grief I get told I need to move on.
I am.....It's not like I stopped working. I feel so angry right now.