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hi, ive been lurking here for ages but only just got the guts to post!

i have a baby thats 3 months old and not been with her dad since i was 3 months pregnant with her.

hes horrible and has said and done horrible thigs. he comes to my house once a week for a hour and doesnt go near her, just sits texting and watching tv. but he does come round every weekend. he never asks about her or does anything for her. i get no money from him towards her things either. and no presents for her at christmas and birthdays from him and his family to her.

he doesnt care about her, but still comes round every week. i offer him hours but he only comes for a hour.

he ignores me and her alot of the time, but when he doesnt hea horrible to me and says horrible things, hes been abusive in the past.

can i stop him seeing her and coming around?he doesnt care and he just hurts me and i know he will hurt my baby when shes older.

what can i do? :(
 
have you ever asked him why he's even bothering to come round if he's not interracting with LO? Is he on the birth certificate? If he is, he will have rights if it goes to court. X
 
i did, he just said because shes his and i cant stop him, then started having a go at me and stuff.

hes not on the birth certificate or anything.

its such a mess, i want my baby to have a dad, but not one thats like this, he doesnt care or anything, i dont get why hes coming round, its got to be to hurt me because its certainly not to see my baby.
 

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