Visitations?

[mzzducky]

I dont know if anyones going through anything similar but im having a hell of a time.. My daughters going on 2 in march.. Recently her dad started taking her every 2nd monday.. My problem is..he picks her up at 6.. puts her to bed at 8 (bed times 9 here at home) so he only spends 2 hours with her.. and then he doesnt even see her the next day she spends the whole day with his wife.. then he gets her to bring my daughter home when im done school before hes even done work.. so she gets like no time with him.. i dont think its right.. any advice?

 

[Laura2919]

Well I am kind of where you are. FOB has the twins every other weekend and one day each week.

Like yesterday his mum collected the girls from my mums at 4:30pm as I had to go and collect my car from its service and I said I would drop the car seats back to her, we got stuck in traffic for more than 2 hours and when I got to FOB's mum's house he still wasnt there, she had had them for two hours! He was busy with his girlfriend and taking her out, it made me angry so I told his mum Christmas morning I am collecting them at 9am instead of 12pm because I have a whole family that want to see my children.

He doesnt spend much time with them at all but to be honest he is the only one who is missing out. He thinks that he can just do what he likes when he likes, tries to change days and lie about what he is doing i.e work changed his days but they didnt he was laying in his girlfriends bed updating his BB status. The tool.

I think you just need to not say anything and your daughter will make her mind up herself.