Well I'm here! :-) Yay!

[Bexyboop]

Hello lovely ladies,

Well I got my BFP last week. Have been lingering around here and first tri. Finally feel ready to announce to the world well the world of baby and bump anyway! I am 5 weeks today, I lost my first baby at 10 weeks. Found at my private scan on the 2nd of January. It was the worst experience of my life but somehow I feel stronger for it. I just pray that I never have to go through something like it again.

We were very very lucky to concieve on our first month back trying. The first time it took almost a year. I certainly have a good feeling about this pregnancy but of course the fear keeps creeping in. I'm on the countdown till my scan. Am hoping that I will get an early scan but if not I will go for a privat scan at 10 weeks which will be in 5 weeks.

Keeping all my fingers and toes crossed!

Best wishes to all of you lovely ladies, hopefully this will be my happy home for the next 8 months!

Xxxx

 

[hekate]

Huge Congrats to you! hope you will have a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby!

 

[NatoPMT]

massive congrats and a big load of sticking plaster atcha.

i had an mmc and my report said i should get an early scan at 7 weeks next time - which is the point the pregnancy failed. Defo be assertive in requesting an early scan

Theres no reason to think you shouldnt be celebrating right now, even cautiously. Your chances as you prob know are the same as any other pregnancy - i know that i shall be very wary and i can understand why you would be, but lets have a fanfare anyway

wooo hooo https://www.smileyslord.com/smileys/birthday-smiley-001.gif

 

[izzysmummy]

Congratulations!

I hope all is ok this time for you. I completely understand how you feel, i suffered an Ectopic followed by a MC. Then went on to have a beautiful Princess who i love soooo much, and i am now currently expecting her baby brother in 15 weeks!

 

[Bexyboop]

Thank you ladies

You are right Nato that it is a time for celebration be that cautiously. I have not told a sole except DH, have felt like I have wanted to keep it for me. My DH has told his best friends, I am seeing one of mine this weekend and think I might just tell her.I have been a bit scared of getting excited and feeling so hurt if it all goes wrong again but I suppose the thing is it is a completely natural thing and I can't hideaway from my feelings.

X

 

[NatoPMT]

petal, if the worst happened, youd feel hurt and bereft whether you tell people or not, but my advice is to only tell people who you would need to tell if the worst did happen.

which it wont. no way jose.

and you need your best mate booper. x

 

[Tulip]

Congratulations Bex! Come and join us in the PAL Bonfire/Winter babies thread (it's expanding!) xxx