Well its done :(

[Ash_P]

As of 3 o,clock today I am now officially back to my maiden name. The week leading up to it I was so excited, I was really looking forward to it, seen it as a move on day, and step forward in my new life.
But I dont feel like that. I feel deflated Iv been really upset most of the day. I dont know why, maybe its cause its like a way of saying its definately over. I dunno.
I feel so pathetic. Im 24, going thru a divorce, with a baby on the way, and I havent the faintest idea how Im going to cope with being a single mum.
Why am I feeling so miserable about a name change.

 

[sweetlullaby]

im sure its bound to affect you. I really hope you feel better soon...but you were married to this guy and are having his baby ...your bound to feel down and upset You will cope fantastically at being a single mum we all will. It will be hard but we're all strong xx

 

[lou_w34]

Yeps!! You will be a fantastic mum!
Your bound to feel sad about it, no matter what you ex has put you through, he was apart of you life, and marriage is a big thing, its bound to take some time.

Have a night infront of the tv, eat some crap, and get a good nights rest, soon youll feel much better

 

[Alexas Mommy]

You just went through a huge thing in your life, and on top of that, you are pregnant, and extra emotional. You will be a great mom, have no doubts!

 

[Ash_P]

Thanks girls. Im sitting here thinking if this is me after just a simple name change, what the hell am I going to be like when the divorce comes thru
I just wish my baby was here so I could have something to focus on.

 

[lauramarie]

hey hun i went back to maiden name before baby was born to, i know how you feel, it is like confirming that it is all over, although you already know that it is. it passes and i now feel good about not having his name and that my son doesn't haven't his name either.

It is strange writing you maiden name again, but you adapt quickly, just a lot of hassle changing your name with DVLA, bank etc.

hope you feel better about it soon x

 

[tinkabells]

Its a big thing your going through, so your going to feel emtional, thinking of you though chick xxx

 

[woadie]

big hugs Ash.... it'll all be okay even though it feels so horrible right now.

 

[purpledahlia]

you can still focus on baby even tho babys not here yet!

sounds like you did it at the right time tho. x

 

[teal]

Sending you hugs Ash xx

 

[ukpaul31]

ash things will get better, keep ya head up girl