jessmke
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My DD spends a lot of time around other children and is generally very laid back. Sometimes other kids take toys from her and she occasionally gets upset about this, if the other parent doesn't notice and give the toy back to her then I just tell her that I know it is frustrating when it happens, but there are lots of toys so it's best to just go find something else to play with. And she always just goes and finds another toy without any drama. Now that she's 2 some of the kids at playgroups are starting to get a bit physical, pushing and occasionally hitting, and I'm not sure what to tell my DD as far as how to respond to these situations. Today a little boy pushed her, she stumbled back a few steps and just stood there looking at him. The boys mom headed over to stop it, but before she got there he pushed DD again. She again just stood and looked at him. She didn't cry or react at all really, but I could tell she was uncomfortable and wasn't really sure what to do. Once the boy's mom removed him she came over and played with a toy next to me and sort of kept her eye on the boy but otherwise didn't seem bothered by the altercation. She has so far handled herself quite well, but I guess I'm worried that she might start to hit or push back, or by not reacting at all she might just stand there and get beat up! She is really small for her age, she weighs the same as my 5 month old and a lot of my friend's 1 year olds are bigger than her, so I think she gets picked on a little bit because she is so teeny. I have so far just let the situations play themselves out, but I feel like I need to start talking to my DD about it when it happens but I have no idea what to tell her!