Kathleen
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I love my OH's daughter. (we're getting married but I'm not allowed to be her stepmum). Theres some things I just don't understand. She's 9 years old, I'll list a few things that happens that I never did as a kid
- Gets OH to cut up her food up for her, pretends she can't do it then admits after its because she couldn't be bothered.
- Turn inside out clothes the right way, same reason as above (she got in a huff when I wouldnt do it for her as she can do it said ''daddy will do it then''
- She insists on being with him while hes in the bath or toilet
- She cant have a bath without him there, he doesn't let her either in case she falls
- if anyone is staying over, she has to sleep in our room
All of this makes it sound like I'm moaning about her but like I said, I love her loads-I'm just wondering if OH is feeling guilty for not being with her all the time. Her mum is also very protective.
- Gets OH to cut up her food up for her, pretends she can't do it then admits after its because she couldn't be bothered.
- Turn inside out clothes the right way, same reason as above (she got in a huff when I wouldnt do it for her as she can do it said ''daddy will do it then''
- She insists on being with him while hes in the bath or toilet
- She cant have a bath without him there, he doesn't let her either in case she falls
- if anyone is staying over, she has to sleep in our room
All of this makes it sound like I'm moaning about her but like I said, I love her loads-I'm just wondering if OH is feeling guilty for not being with her all the time. Her mum is also very protective.