what to do?

[AnnNI]

I have 1 ds aged 2 yrs 9months - i had no complications and got preg first time with him. I had a mc at 6 weeks last June 2014. I got pregnant again Jan 2015 and had a missed mc March 2015 and D n C. Since March I have lost 10 pounds in weight and I am generally feeling and looking much better and have spoke to my GP who says she will start me on asprin and progesterone once i get my bfp. Consultant at hosp after d n c said to wait for 2 cycles but my own GP says to try when im ready. I have had 1 period last week and its getting to ovulation time soon and thinking should I or will i wait? Maybe try to loss some more weight? I've only begun taking my folic acid again last week too. Would love some advice. I am terrified of another MC and my sister's wedding is the end of June and I would hate to miscarry again around then......its so difficult to know what to do.

So should i wait another cycle and then try or just go for it? What do you all think about the folic acid - i've only been taking it a week or so now!

Can't really talk to anyone about this - as i've vowed to tell no one other than OH until i get 12weeks + as i just couldnt handle the whole world knowing again!

 

[AnnieMac2]

I am so sorry for your losses. It's so hard. I think if you feel good physically and emotionally, you should go for it. I don't know about the folic acid. Maybe you can tell your doctor how long you've been taking it and get their feedback, and then see if you feel more comfortable making a decision.

I'm just trying again now myself, and I totally get how hard it is to decide. Good luck!

 

[kdmalk]

If you feel you need additional time to recover emotionally, then take that time to get healthier and be the best you you can be for a future baby....

But if you feel ready, my doctor only made me wait until I had a period to start trying again. So you should be safe if you want to try.

 

[AnnNI]

Thanks so much for both your replies! It helps to know others r in the same boat! xxx