charmy28
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I suffer really bad from anxiety and OCD and have been off my medication since finding out I was pregnant. Mainly due to pressure from my husband as he doesnt believe in taking anything that can harm baby. However am now seeing a psychologist.
Im now 33 weeks pregnant and In the past 3-4 weeks my anxiety has skyrocketed and I panic a lot when cant feel baby for a while or if her movements change. I cant sleep at night sometimes because of this and worry a lot about stillbirth etc.
It really doesnt help that my LO has no set pattern with her movements and some days is really really active and other days quiet as anything!!!!! She also has no time of the day when she is most active but just moves when she feels like it.
I have been to triage quite a few times for reduced movements and they have done a trace and everything has been fine. However ......
When asking the midwives to clarify how often I should be feeling her and when to worry I always get conflicting info. Some say 10 movements a day , 10 movements an hour and doctor said if her pattern changes!!!!
The doctor at triage knows about my anxiety problems and that I see a psycologist for this and is always understanding and tells me to go in for monitoring if im worried as that is what they are there for.
Anyway the last few days she has been quite quiet (not sure if just cause she is getting bigger now) and think i may be losing alittle bit of fluid.
Just rang triage and the midwife was so awful to me on the phone and i got a bit upset.
She asked my name and when I told her she said " oh yeah I know you" really nastily. She told me to wear a pad for fluid and if worse go back in the morning. When also asking about reduced movements she snapped at me " well your always worried though arent you" and tried to get me off the phone.
Do you think this is acceptable???What would you do if you were in my position????
Im now 33 weeks pregnant and In the past 3-4 weeks my anxiety has skyrocketed and I panic a lot when cant feel baby for a while or if her movements change. I cant sleep at night sometimes because of this and worry a lot about stillbirth etc.
It really doesnt help that my LO has no set pattern with her movements and some days is really really active and other days quiet as anything!!!!! She also has no time of the day when she is most active but just moves when she feels like it.
I have been to triage quite a few times for reduced movements and they have done a trace and everything has been fine. However ......
When asking the midwives to clarify how often I should be feeling her and when to worry I always get conflicting info. Some say 10 movements a day , 10 movements an hour and doctor said if her pattern changes!!!!
The doctor at triage knows about my anxiety problems and that I see a psycologist for this and is always understanding and tells me to go in for monitoring if im worried as that is what they are there for.
Anyway the last few days she has been quite quiet (not sure if just cause she is getting bigger now) and think i may be losing alittle bit of fluid.
Just rang triage and the midwife was so awful to me on the phone and i got a bit upset.
She asked my name and when I told her she said " oh yeah I know you" really nastily. She told me to wear a pad for fluid and if worse go back in the morning. When also asking about reduced movements she snapped at me " well your always worried though arent you" and tried to get me off the phone.
Do you think this is acceptable???What would you do if you were in my position????