One of the biggest things I am doing differently is taking my prenatals before I evern get pregnant. I am hoping this will make a difference...getting lots and lots of folic acid for the baby.
I am on a roller derby team, and did some hard core training before I found out, and continued with light skating. I don't think I will skate at all...I'll probably switch to walking during the pregnancy.
I will talk to this baby more. I talked to my angel baby, but I wish I would have talked to her more, even if she can't hear me.
I will tell fewer people. I announced it on facebook last time and had tons of congrats and all that....well, because of that, I had to post that I lost the baby and that was followed by lots of sympathy. And now, I still get the occassional person that missed that bad news and asks how the baby is. So, next time, I won't be posting it on there.
I will get a scan sooner. I don't know if it will help, I was almost 12 weeks when I lost this baby...(baby died at about 9w4d). But it would be nice to see the reassurance anyway. I would feel somewhat better I think...
Overall, I think I am going to be neurotic about everything, super super careful. I know that in the end it won't matter, I know that all these things won't save my baby if I am to mc again...but I still can't help it. I hate the what-ifs. If I do everything I can think of then at least I know I tried my very very hardest.
Grandbleu- I'm with you on the sex one...that is one my list too....gentle sex only!!