When did you start trying again?

[Beankeeper]

I miscarried my LO at 14 weeks earlier this week. I know I'm not ready to try again yet. I'm devastated & still trying to come terms with what's happened. But at some point I want to look forward. I want to know know that there is a rainbow after the storm. I had 4 early losses prior to this one, I really thought this was my rainbow baby.

When did you know it was the right time for you to start trying? How did you decide? Xx

 

[Beankeeper]

Anybody?

 

[OmarsMum]

Big hugs

I lost my baby in April this year at almost 10 weeks, I had a chemical before conceiving.

We're NTNP, I'm not even sure I'm ready, I wouldnt start actively ttc before new year, I need to give my body time to heal physically & emotionally.

 

[caz_hills]

I lost my LO - went for the 12 week scan and they confirmed that baby was gone. That was two weeks ago and I'm still bleeding but we hope to ttc straight away when we can. In some ways I can't go through it again but we do want another LO for our son who is three. It's tough as I'm petrified of it happening again, but I want to get straight back into ttc x good luck x

 

[mummy3ds]

I am 12 days post D&C and think Im ovulating, part of me says we ttc now, part of me says we wait until after 1st AF. We did the deed on Saturday and I cried I just want my baby, my head is a mess

 

[whitglass]

I'm so sorry for all of your losses ladies, it really breaks my heart. I've had two early losses in 3 months, and it's been hard. Hearing others stories brings some solace, some feeling of not being totally alone.

I was told today by my friend who is also acupuncturist specializing in infertility that I should wait 2-3 months to give my body time to change what it needs to in order to hold a baby. That kinda devastated me, as I was hoping to start trying again right away, and as scared as I am to do that, I just want to be pregnant. It's so hard.