When no one understands

[Briana0990]

How frustrating is it when someone says your chemical pregnancy was just a late period!? You don't get positives on your tests unless you're producing hormone. It's such a different feeling from just getting AF on time. Like when she's 5 days late with faint BFPs and then a big white BFN its so hard. i feel for anyone who loses their baby at any stage. The very beginning should be valid as well but everyone just thinks I'm dramatic 😐

 

[broodymrs]

I completely get this. I had two chemicals when ttc no 1, and one definite one this time although I did have other months I suspected it but couldn't be sure as no one else could see the line. The last one hit me really hard as I just felt we were never having another baby (I know I'm lucky to have one!). Midwives don't count it either. I've told both of mine each time and they just shrug it off. It is very sad and I'm sorry to you Hun for your loss. Hopefully your bfp is just around the corner

 

[Briana0990]

I also have a child already and people do I also make me feel guilty about that! I thank god for her everyday but if you don't feel like your family is complete you shouldn't have to feel bad about secondary infertility. Thanks for the support. I just wish this witch would get here so I can grieve and move on