why do we bow to their rules

[ablaze]

so pissed off with myself, darren asked to see kids over night this week but got arsey about it callin me the usual names etc etc..

yet here i am packing there bag cos i dont want kids to suffer cos hes a cock

grrrr!!!!!!!

 

[fifi83]

i can totally relate, such idiots! x

 

[Plumfairy]

 

[ablaze]

its so frustrating!!! i tell myself no just stick to the agreement... but then chloe says.. whats daddy got me for my bday... or callum says are we staying at daddys an it breaks my heart

 

[MummyMummy]

it's horrible isn't it? it's heartbreaking yet they don't seem to give a flying fuck!!!! everything is their terms... reguardless of any disruptions!

for a whole week baby was asking 'when i see my daddy?' 'where's my daddy?' 'i seeing my daddy today?' even telling us to use his roary (the car)phone as that would make daddy talk! and me phoning ex up and never getting through i didn't know what to do.finally managed to meet up with him, he started crying said he'd make more of an effort etc etc and f/a came of it! yet it's ME and mr.man who have to pick up the pieces!

it's so annoying. my son has to be assessed by a healthy visitor due to anxiety issues because of his dad, so me like you doing in keep pushing and trying to makethings better and easier have done no good what so ever

xXx

 

[xarlenex]

Yuup. They call and ask to have them and all previous plans we may have had are cancelled, because we want them to know their dads. But the dad's dont care whos routine their upsetting!