Worried and in need of advice, please

[RoseEvalyn]

Okay so my AF isn't supposed to come until the 19th (4 days from now) but I started very light spotting on the 9th at 7dpo which continued for a couple days then eased up to barely noticeable. Symptoms of PG started right before the spotting, i'm super tired all the time, can barely stay awake even if i sleep all day. back aches terribly, light cramping here and there (similar but not quite the same as the ones i get when AF is here), headaches out the wazoo, nausea but no vomiting, Then is started light again at 11dpo and gradually got a tiny bit heavier heavier. right now i'm 13dpo with frequent moderate spotting and some clotting. Also, sometimes a clear sort of thick discharge is with the spotting..is this normal? I've been ttc for a little while now. Took a test on the 10th- BFN and another one two days ago when I wasn't spotting and still got a BFN. I had a miscarriage last year and this doesn't feel like it to me.. I never get spotting, not even before my AF comes, nor after.
I read a couple posts where the ladies had spotting AND clotting and said they had gone to their doctor who told them it was implantation bleeding. the clotting worries me though I have a doctors appt next wednesday. with all the research i've been doing over the past few days I've been thinking it's just implantation bleeding but i'm not entirely sure. :/ Trying not to worry too much. Apologies for this being so long.

Any advice to tide me over until the appt???

 

[RoseEvalyn]

Oh and when on my AF I always always have clotting. My body has always been that way. It's never severe and my doc never said it was bad when i got it checked out. so idk.

 

[RoseEvalyn]

There have been a large handful of people who've viewed and no one has any advice?
I'm new to all of this, btw. This is my first time TTC. so I'm sort of clueless lols

 

[fizzypop]

I have no idea... I've never been pregnant. The best thing you can do is relax I suppose. If you can! I'm sure someone will be of more use. GL though honey xx

 

[Twister]

Didn't want to read and run, not quite sure what could be happening tbh as it's only my second month ttc. Everyone is different and there is a chance you could have implanted but an equal chance you may have not. The best thing to do is be patient, wait and see if af comes or your doctors appointment and see what they say. Good luck!

 

[Cowgirlranda]

Didnt want to read and run I dont know much about this but I wish you the best of luck and hope this is ur bfp and everything is fine

 

[WinterSong4]

What you are experiencing could be implantation bleeding especially if that is something you never experienced. There is no way of really knowing until you get a blood test to check for hCG levels.

The best thing to do until then, is to relax and not stress over it. I know that isn't easy lol. I had my first chemical pregnancy since TTC this month. Sad, but there isn't anything I can do about it.

Keep us updated!

 

[Bride2b]

When is AF due? Test once you are late and then hopefully the test will tell. I have been TTC 9-10 months & no BFP yet, so I really cant help with those symptoms. I think as soon as a lot of us see a little blood we hope & try and convince ourselves it is implantation bleeding (for some it is). Keep a level head just in case it isnt implantation. Good luck
x

 

[RoseEvalyn]

Thanks guys
I'm back to light spotting so who knows what's going on with my body.

AF is due on the 19th which is monday so i plan on testing then. and my appt is on wednesday so maybe they can answer my questions and do some blood tests.

Will keep you guys updated.
And lots of baby dust to yous

 

[RoseEvalyn]

Went to the dr and saw a different person than i would normally and that was a mistake. explained my situation over the past couple weeks and she chalked it down to nothing but an irregular AF... didn't even try to assess the situation any further. i didnt like her..she didnt want to listen to what i was saying when i said things i was concerned about. and kept asking (like a total of four times...) if i was interested in BC and i kept kindly saying that i wasnt and i wont be using it.. and i'm like irritated at this point. then she asked if im sure im ready to have a child..and i told her yes that i've wanted one for over a year now and what not. and then she tells me that i should probably start exercising and to lose weight to have a healthier pregnancy when i do become pregnant. (which, yes, is true, i am overweight) but the way she went about the whole situation sucked, she was judgmental and rude at times and was very short and to the point. whereas my normal dr is awesome and would have sat there and talked me through all the possibilities that the last couple of weeks could have been, and then maybe i wouldnt have had a problem with it being an irregular AF. but still i dont ever have irregular AF nor have i had any sudden weight gain that could contribute to that, i've actually lost 8lbs in the past couple weeks. but anyway, there's the update. So i shall continue to NTNP and whatever happens happens.

 

[nrem1009]

Sorry to hear that the dr visit didn't go as well as you wanted. It is VERY frustrating when you spend your time explaining how your feeling, and what is going on and they just blow it off like its nothing. I know this feeling! I am overweight as well and I HATE when dr's automatically jump all over the weight issue! I am aware of how much I weigh, and i'm working on that, but its like they point it out every time. It makes it more frustrating..

I wish you lots of luck for a BFP next cycle!