You have a magic wand and its 5 years from now

[Dream.dream]

*Poof* whats life like for you, what would the perfect situation be? Just curious as to what your guys dreams are. please share.

Mines im finished school and my OH and i have gotten married, we have our second baby, and we have are building house of our own, and a german sheppard.Im finish up my last bit of work before i can be a stay at home mom . My sons sperm donor has diapeared and OH can now finally adopt my son like he wants. *poof*

 

[lemontree12]

I would love to be confident, happy and have forgotten the hurt and pain fob has caused me!

I hate my situation

 

[marron]

I would meet a guy who will accept my LO as his own... that, or a million dollars so I can buy a house and stay at home and not have to stick anyone in daycare.

 

[Lemonflower]

Forget the hurt FOB has caused me.

Be married to a kind man who loves me and LO like his own and to be living together in our own house as a family.

To be comfortable with money so a lottery win would be nice too!!

xxx

 

[jemmie1994]

want to have qualified as a midwife have my own house with Evie and our own car, would also love to have met a nice guy who will look after us and for FOB to have given up his rights so can be a proper family without having to worry about him interfering

 

[george83]

i'd want my husband to have come back begging forgiveness and promising to make me and our son the sole reason for his being, we'd live in a mansion thanks to a lottery win and have endless children who i'd be able to stay at home and look after without ever having to go back to work.

 

[youngmommy2]

Be with a good man who loves me and my LO as his own, possibly have a new baby or pregnant.. live in a nice home and have no money problems. I really freakin wish..

 

[Dream.dream]

to a lottery win and have endless children who i'd be able to stay at home and look after without ever having to go back to work.

i wish if it were possible for me to be a stay at home mom id have like 10 kids and stay home with them

 

[MommaAlexis]

I'd like to be either graduated or on my way to graduating college or university. LO will be the cutest little punk rocker in the world, "f"ob will have signed over his rights and never miss a child support payement, also, I got my abs back and kept my HUGE tits LOL!!! Who says I have to be realistic?

 

[Laura2919]

Ha this is a fab thread!

I'd like to be married with another child (preferably just the one I love my girls but boy they are hard work lol) to a wonderful man, the complete opposite to FOB. Someone who is genuine and honest. Am I asking for too much?

 

[teal]

As much as I would like to meet someone decent I know I'll be happy as long as my son and I are happy.

At the moment I just want to feel better. (a long drawn out fight with PPD) xx

 

[Lemonflower]

Aww I like your response Teal!

As long as me and little fella are happy then that's the main thing!
I do miss big fella cuddles though!

Big hugs Teal

xxx

 

[teal]

Aww I like your response Teal!

As long as me and little fella are happy then that's the main thing!
I do miss big fella cuddles though!

Big hugs Teal

xxx

Thank you xx

 

[Cupcake Mummy]

*POOF* Lili is 5 and is at school! I have a new man and one/two kids. I am working in my job. I have no money problems and a nice house!!! Lili has not seen her dad for a long time because he moved overseas! *POOF*

 

[LilDreamy]

I will be a nurse taking care of my two precious princesses on my own. Without much money problems. My children will be the happiest they could possibly be and never be without. And I will have time to spend time with them as much as I can.

My car will be paid off, they'll be in school doing school activities, and having little princess slumber parties with the house full of little giggles.

That I wake up everyday to see their happy little faces in a near perfect life.

Please God, help me be strong and reach our dreams. Amen!

 

[BigZai]

If its a super magic wand in 5 years I would like
done with college and
married to some amazing guy who owns a farm and i can be a stay at home mom working with animals

 

[Snowball]

I said something similar the other day.

I'd like to feel settled in my life (it's been a long time since I felt that!). I'd like to have found somebody and experienced what it's actually like to be with someone who truly loves you because as much as I used to think the ex did... He never would have bent over backwards to make me happy, that was my job for him.

I want the kids to be happy, again I find their relationship with the ex leads to them being bitter and I want to rip that away. I want to be a stronger person and not such a doormat who'll settle for second best because it's less hassle than saying I'm worth better.

A lot of stuff I want it more about my own personal development as the ex running off has truly opened my eyes to how weak I was. I want to change that.

 

[dustbunny]

This is a brilliant idea of a thread!! - love it!!

In 5 years time FOB will be a distant memory as will his mother. I probably wouldn't have met anyone new as I am waaaayyy too busy with my business which I had started just before I found out I was pregnant. LO would be starting school this September and possibly... possibly... might be pregnant with baby numero 2 via sperm bank. Also really really happy and for the shit times to have ended.

 

[Fraggles]

ooooooh settled and happy with my gorgeous boys maybe a few more added to the pot Maybe even have a phd

 

[Surreal]

In five years I'd like to be settled into a job with good benefits, and possibly the ability to advance, without sacrificing time with my son. Because, who's kidding? Son time is gonna take precedence over job advancement. I'd like to be able to live on my own, in my own home. I'd like to be able to have more children, but at the same time... I'm not set on "needing" another man. I'm past that, atm, and am just looking forward to my son and I.

I guess one benefit I have already, is FOB has no involvement, other then paying money to ORS.