Your Family

[Ellianna]

Heya
After posting on another thread I was just wondering what kind of family everyone has and how they reacted to your pregnancy.

My family consists of:
My Eldest brother is my dads son from his first marriage - Cal 28
My Second eldest brother is my dads second son from his first marriage - Jayden 26
My Eldest sister is my dads daughter from his first marriage - Livvi 25
My Third eldest brother is my mum and dads first child - Liam 23
My Fourth eldest brother is my mum and dads second child - Robbie 20
Then there's me I'm 17
My little brother from my dads third marriage - Luka 4
My little sister from my dads third marriage - Nicole 18 months

Two Brothers - Liam + Robbie
Three Half Brothers - Cal + Jayden + Luka
Two Half Sisters - Nicole + Livvi

Then there's My mum and dad, my mums husband and my dad's wife!

As you can imagine my four older brothers wern't very happy about my pregnancy at all. Jayden, Liam and James (my OH) got in a massive fight about it about but when they realised James was serious about having the baby and that he would support us they layed off him a bit. They're still not best pleased about it but I'm hoping that when it's closer to the baby coming they'll be feeling better about it and looking forward to being uncles.
Livvi was amazing, she gave me lots of hugs and talked everything through with both me and James and made us (especially me) feel so much better about it.
Luka and Nicole are obviosly too young to understand but I have told Luka that he's gona be an uncle and he just said 'Your having a baby? Why??' lol

So what was everyone else's family like?
Did anyone else have a problem with protective older brothers?

Hope everyone's good
Ellianna
xx

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

Haha my family is jus as confusinngg

Georgina 22 - dads first baby - half sister
Jamie - 19 - mum an dads first baby together
Me - 16 - mum an dads second baby together
Jessi - 15 - mum an dads third baby together
Cortney - 5 - dads girl friends daughter from previous - step sister
Aj - 2 - dad and ex girlfriends first baby together - half brother
Elyssa - 1 - dad and ex girlfriends second baby together - half sister
Madison - bump [6 weeks left ] - dad and ex girlfriends third baby together - half sister

Then theres Mum, dad and dads ex [still really close with dads ex]

Jamie my older brother was protective at first and was fumingg over it but now he is coming to terms with it n stuff so am lucky, was just other family members who still aren't happy with the situation and that so they will have to try n get over it because its not going away haha xx

 

[Always&4ever]

My family were all happy for us

 

[Lauren-x]

My family are;

Mum; 48
Dad; 50
Sister; 20
Me; 17

My family feels small to everyone elses :O.

They all think it's best if I get rid of it because I'm not with my boyfriend anymore but I don't want to so when I go back to the Doctors I'm just going to have to tell them that I want to keep it if everything goes ok. I think that they're just really diappointed in him, which I am too it's not like it was a fling but still he decided to go anyway.

The only thing they are worried about is supporting me and the baby and what other people will think. But if they judge me for a mistake that's been made then I don't think that they're worth knowing anyway and the friends I have told are very supportive.

 

[xxleannexx]

Mine seems jus as small:

Mom - 42
Dad - 42
Me - 18
Twin brothers - 15

Mine were all shocked at first then even more shocked when i broke up with babies dad (still really gd mates tho and he is going to play a big part in her life) but now everyone cnt wait and is really happy, my bro's cnt wait to be uncles but they are younger than me so prob not as protective.

 

[GAURDIANANGEL]

my family wasn't that thrilled.
but they are coming around =]

 

[Lauren_16]

My family is so small compared to all of yours'
Mam - 46
Dad - 39
Me - 16
Alex (Brother) - 13

Well, They kicked off, had abit of a scream, a cry, a moan and then thought , hang on , were dissin our grandkid here

so then they got happy lmao

There dead wierd tbh

xx

 

[goldlion]

Everyone's pretty thrilled. My dad was a bit shocked, it took him a while to be able to talk about the baby but he has definitely come around. Everyone else just can't wait.

 

[mommy2raven]

Ok well my family consists of

My mom Karen 39
My Step-dad Kevin 48

Martin Joseph Whyte (my step-brother) He's 29.
Jackson-Robert William Jason Campbell-Whyte(My Adopted Brother) he's 26
Alexa-Jade Galleria Elizabeth Campbell-Whyte(My Adopted Sister) She's 25.
Then the twins(my other adopted brother and sister):
Carmen-Ruby Nicole Elizabeth Sanchez-Whyte 24.
Noah-Ian Zachary James Sanchez-Whyte 24.
Alejandro-Jake Daniel James Myres-Whyte (my biological brother) He's 20.
Bailey-Chanel Adrienne Elizabeth Ramierez (Me) I'm 18.
And Mom is due a surprise in June!!!

Jackson Martin Noah and Alejandro were very annoyed when I told them and they said they were gonna kick Malakai's ass!!! Thankfully they didn't and just sat him down and had a chat with him to this day i don't know what they said but everything has been fine between them since!!!
My sisters were just dissapointed really but AJ was sooooooo supportive she really helped mt through and ahe helped me tell mom and stuff couldn't of done it without her.

Mom screamed and ranted but she got over it and was helpful Kevin was sooooo supportive he really was an angel he didn't scream he just asked me what he cold do to help!!!

 

[xarlenex]

Most of my mums side of the family accepted it and came around really quickly..my dads side is another story. My dads accepted it now though. My boyfriends family were all chuffed x

 

[CharliesMammy]

Well.. my family seems pretty small..
Theres my mum, her OH, my dad, my half bro, my sister, my OH and my niece.
Neil; dads first kid in first marrage. 30
Fran; mum and dads first. 20
Me; mum and dads 2nd. 16
Kaila; my sisters 1st baby 2
Craig; my other half. 19

My mum was shocked. Asked me if i was having an abortion. I said I didn't know. I decided to keep the baby. Told my sister, who didn't believe me, made me do a test in front of her. My niece- Doesn't understand, just pats my tum and says "Baby?" And my brother doesn't know, :S!!!! He lives in Australia so havn't spoke to him since I found out! I didn't tell my dad. I havn't seen him for years. Someone told him and he said "Oh did ****** (My mum) say that it was alright then? Stupid... (Insert nasty names!!) "

Everyone else was shocked but they had to come round to it really. They had the option.. from me and my OH and my mum. Get used to it. Like it or F**k off out of our lives. Their choice!

Although my nan did take my birthday cake off me! I told her on my 16th birthday when I was 16 weeks gone, and she said "Well you can't eat chocolate or you'll get very fat"

 

[maddiwatts19]

Im an only child!
so its bascically just me, mum and dad, but then obv my aunties,. uncles etc. But OH is one of 11! so theres a lot of them there!!. All same parents tho!
We havent told our families yet. want to wait till after 12 weeks. just incses something happens

 

[anita665]

I'm not a teen so most of my family were happy but my dad who I have little to do with kept talking about it like it was a mistake saying "well what can we do about it" & how he'll love me no matter what happens!?!?! He's a little strange though because he drinks.

My uncle has been more of a father figure to me and he was the only other one who was concerned. He's happy for me but worries about whether my r/ship will last and stuff like that - just as a dad would.

 

[Lara18]

Im an only child so theres only:
Mum- 45
Nan-64
me-18
I live wid them^
OH-19
his mum- 44
his dad-48
younger sis- 17
younger bro- 8

My Mum was really disappointed as was my nan, did'nt really shout. They wanted me to have an abortion but accepted it when I said i was'nt having one. OH wanted me to have an abortion at first as did his family. Now OH is happy, but a bit scared of being a Daddy, his family are a bit split. His Mum said i was a dirty little slag and she didnt think it was her sons, she is still convinced ive been sleeping around either that or I got preggers on purpose to trap him. His Dad does'nt really say much about it. His sister is excited and is always asking me questions about bump. His brother doesnt really understand, but just says "im gonna be an uncle" to his friends or says to random people "shes going to have a baby" and points at me lol. xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[TashaAndBump]

Immediately speaking, there's my mum and her partner, my brother (who lives with his other half), and my sister who also had a baby at my age.

My mother was the first to find out as she was at the doctors with me and I was in such shock that I got the nurse to call her in from the waiting room - she took it a lot better than I did!

Everyone was a bit shocked, but ultimately supportive and loving about it... my mum did throw us out, though! But since she did the same for my sister when she was my age and expecting I guess that's only fair...

My grandmother, stuck in her old-fashioned ways, was the only one who took it badly really... She's never approved of my husband because he has muscular dystrophy - (when I first took him round there to meet her she asked him to leave his wheelchair at the door!) - and when she found out that I was pregnant she tried to claim that he hadn't got me pregnant but I had got him pregnant - to which I couldn't resist replying that he's a right goer and his favorite position is doggy-style! She also said that "people like that" shouldn't be allowed to have kids along with a few other nasty things... surprisingly not much about my age, though!

So, in all, my family have been pretty good about the whole thing.........

 

[Linzi]

Im not a teenager either, I was 20 when I found out about the baby.

Theres me (21)
Matt, my boyfriend (24)
My Mum (god knows)
My step mum (42)
My Dad (45)
My step brother, Simon (18)
My half brother Nathan (7)
OHs sister (20)
OHs brother (18)

Everyone on his side of the family took it pretty well.

Ive had problems with my mam and step mam because I dont really have a relationship with my mam and she wants to be involved.

My dads a bit funny about it because he feels to young to be a grandad.

My grandparents have been funny because we arent married.

But apart from that everyone has been fine!

xxx