Hi, this sounds like it was a big shock for you. I’m sorry to hear you are so anxious about how to tell your parents and do not feel sure they will be supportive.
Do you know how far along you are? You can usually use the first day of your last period and count the weeks since then to get a good idea.
I recommend you tell your parents asap. You may find they are more supportive than you are expecting them to be, but either way you are likely to need their help to find antenatal care or to access abortion services, depending on what you decide to do.
I was a teen mum. It felt like the end of the world when I found out I was pregnant, but I didn’t feel abortion was something I personally could go through with. It worked out for me - I went back to school when my children started school. Now I have a PhD and teach at university and my children (14, 12 and 12) are very lovely, fun-loving, well-adjusted, compassionate, hard-working and ambitious people. If I could go back and change anything, I don’t think I would, except for maybe leaving their dad sooner than I did!
Of course, there are aspects of being a single and teenage parent that are very hard, especially if you don’t have a source of income, secure accommodation or support from family. There are many things that it’s a whole lot harder to do with a young child depending on you - for example, travelling, pursuing education, having good relationships, going out etc These kinds of things might have to be put on hold while your children are very young. But they are achievable with time and patience.
You are very young, so the plus side of having a child now is that when they are grown up you will still be very young and able to pursue anything any other person without children might. For example I’m 33 now and all of my children would have been off to university before I was 40 if I hadn’t have decided to have another child now.
What you should do now is a very personal question that will depend on your individual circumstances eg finances / home situation, your religious / spiritual / moral views about abortion. There is no right answer here - only what is right for you.
I’m sorry you’re in this stressful situation and having to make these hard decisions. I just want to reassure you that whatever you do, everything will be okay. This is not the end of the world or the end of your life! So many people have been exactly where you are now, and we lived to tell the tale!
Good luck with telling your parents. Do let us know how you get on x