I'm so upset...I slept so horribly last night. This is a long story but it has me so upset. So my OH has a sister...she's adopted. His mother had him biologically and couldn't have any more kids so she adopted...but the easiest way was to adopt children with issues (and minority) because it'd be faster. So this girl is biopolar and maybe some other things as well...and has a bad bad history of violence and not taking meds, etc etc. She sleeps around, tries to kill herself constantly...all kinds of messed up. So a couple months after I find out I'm pregnant...surprise...she's pregnant too!
Fast forward to now..she's got a little baby boy who's a month younger than my LO, doesn't know who the father is and is living with my OHs mother because she can't support herself let alone herself and the baby. My OHs mother is financially responsible for this girl until she turns 21 (which just blows my mind) so its easier to have her in the house anyways. She was ok mentally during her pregnancy and they were thinking things were looking up, she was taking care of the baby, etc...well now she's having some sort of break and is freaking out on OHs mother.
She called him last night and I could hear her screaming in the background and she was holding the baby at the time.She sleeps until 2 and ignores his cries, she's screaming at him, she's tried to give him boiling hot bottles...it just makes me sick thinking about it. She won't let OHs mother take care of him. She's been talking about giving him away and doing a private adoption, etc...and obviously OHs mother is attached to this boy and would take custody of him if she could (but it'd be hard, she works full time and takes full time care of her 19 year old adopted son who is autistic, deaf, and has cerebral palsy)...but OHs sister is trying to do whatever she can to hurt her to get back at her for some imagined wrong-doing.
I'm so sad and scared for this baby. OHs mom called the cops on her last night because she was trying to leave the house with the baby in his carseat on foot and he was barely dressed at it was like 30 degrees...and the cops told her to stay in her part of the house, stop antagonizing her, and she can do what she wants with her baby, she's not hurting him. Apparently the cops in this backwoods town are assholes and even when OHs sister has hit their mother in the past they won't let her press charges.
She started in screaming again at 3 am because OHs mother got up to change the baby because he was crying and his sister was in the bathroom on the phone and she took the baby away, propped a bottle in his mouth, said "Here you fat fuck now shut up" and started screaming at their mother.I can't believe that she can't get any help here. She needs to not have custody of this baby...and the cops need to fucking do something. This is just blowing my mind and I'm sooo angry...I'm afraid this baby is going to end up dead!
Fast forward to now..she's got a little baby boy who's a month younger than my LO, doesn't know who the father is and is living with my OHs mother because she can't support herself let alone herself and the baby. My OHs mother is financially responsible for this girl until she turns 21 (which just blows my mind) so its easier to have her in the house anyways. She was ok mentally during her pregnancy and they were thinking things were looking up, she was taking care of the baby, etc...well now she's having some sort of break and is freaking out on OHs mother.
She called him last night and I could hear her screaming in the background and she was holding the baby at the time.She sleeps until 2 and ignores his cries, she's screaming at him, she's tried to give him boiling hot bottles...it just makes me sick thinking about it. She won't let OHs mother take care of him. She's been talking about giving him away and doing a private adoption, etc...and obviously OHs mother is attached to this boy and would take custody of him if she could (but it'd be hard, she works full time and takes full time care of her 19 year old adopted son who is autistic, deaf, and has cerebral palsy)...but OHs sister is trying to do whatever she can to hurt her to get back at her for some imagined wrong-doing.
I'm so sad and scared for this baby. OHs mom called the cops on her last night because she was trying to leave the house with the baby in his carseat on foot and he was barely dressed at it was like 30 degrees...and the cops told her to stay in her part of the house, stop antagonizing her, and she can do what she wants with her baby, she's not hurting him. Apparently the cops in this backwoods town are assholes and even when OHs sister has hit their mother in the past they won't let her press charges.
She started in screaming again at 3 am because OHs mother got up to change the baby because he was crying and his sister was in the bathroom on the phone and she took the baby away, propped a bottle in his mouth, said "Here you fat fuck now shut up" and started screaming at their mother.I can't believe that she can't get any help here. She needs to not have custody of this baby...and the cops need to fucking do something. This is just blowing my mind and I'm sooo angry...I'm afraid this baby is going to end up dead!