Oh brother. It’s not happening to him
If you decide you want to keep the baby, it will not ruin your life, I think you should know that. Certain things will be more challenging for sure, but you will never look at that child and think they ruined your future.
When I was having my 2nd baby I had to make a decision on how I wanted to deliver and what I did was look at my options, and paid attention to how each one made me feel. What was my gut intuition. I made myself take every option seriously, and my own feelings made themselves clear.
Someone mentioned giving the baby up for adoption, is that something you’ve considered?
I also feel like you should consider that your parents will likely find out even if you do not choose to keep the baby. That procedure can be painful both physically and emotionally. I don’t say it to scare you, but I know ladies who have gone through it (although they lost their babies beforehand), and it wasn’t an easy, pain-free option. Unfortunately there is no easy out in this kind of situation, which is why you should give a lot of thought to what you want to do.