10 DPO BFN......And Depressed

[crystaldrops]

Before I started TTC , all I've seen was "a test should work the day after missed period, and if it doesn't then wait a week(!) and test again". The problem with TTC-ers is tgat we know too much, and that we've surfed Internet sooo much to see those "bfp at 8 dpo" cases. Sometimes I think hpt producers actually pay people to go online and tell about their early-detected pregnancies. TTC is supposed to be a beautiful journey, so why stressing ourselves out. The only way to assume u are out is after AF has shown up, and early testing is just for possibly but not necessarily finding out abt pregnancy earlier, not for rendering a cycle as successful or failed. Before AF there is Nothing really to indicate that conception hasn't occured

 

[Feelcrazy]

Huney
that is a hard job to have when you are ttc with no luck
I'm sorry. I get how u feel. I can't talk to anyone besides here because they Just day relax it will happen naturally. So I've had relax trying months and obsessive over sexed multiple opk months haha. Neither work! Lol. Keep us updated !!! Hugs to YOU

 

[Billyboots]

well, tested this morning with fmu and frer BFN! 11dpo because i have been charting and using opks. im so down and my husband just doesnt get it. i have so many symptoms but i suppose thats just af. im going to wait until firday to test now if af hasnt already arrived.

hugs xx

 

[maaybe2010]

I tested at 10DPO.
Tested at 11DPO

It's sooooo hard to hold out on testing but in the long run it's normaly best for our sainity





I just read your post above mine. . . .
There's still a chance hun, it might be a smaller chance but there is still a chance!!!

 

[Billyboots]

what test did you use maaybe2010? and was the line dark and was it fmu? CONGRATULATIONS xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[maaybe2010]

what test did you use maaybe2010? and was the line dark and was it fmu? CONGRATULATIONS xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

It was fmu, a cheapie and it was super, super faint my OH didn't even see it.
Aww thanks for congratulating me but I'm not pregnant now, it was in May

I'll see if I can dig out the picture!

From the bottom up is 11DPO, 12DPO, 13DPO (test and ov test), 14DPO and 15 DPO.
Shows how faint they were until about 14DPO!! I had a big thread in the gallery and no one could see lol

 

[Billyboots]

hey girls i found this on a site

Days Post
Ovulation
(DPO) Day of
Expected
Period (EP) Chance of Still Being Pregnant with a Negative HPT Chance of NOT Being Pregnant with a Negative HPT % of Pregnant Women with a positive Pregnancy Test
12 DPO EP -3 12.3% 87.8% 51%
13 DPO EP -2 9.5% 90.5% 62%
14 DPO EP -1 8.0% 92.0% 68%
15 DPO Expected period 6.5% 93.5% 74%
16 DPO EP +1 5.3% 94.8% 79%
17 DPO EP +2 3.8% 96.3% 85%
18 DPO EP +3 2.5% 97.5% 90%
23 DPO EP +7 1% 99.0% 96%

 

[Billyboots]

Days Post
Ovulation
(DPO) Day of
Expected
Period (EP) Chance of Still Being Pregnant with a Negative HPT Chance of NOT Being Pregnant with a Negative HPT % of Pregnant Women with a positive Pregnancy Test
12 DPO EP -3 12.3% 87.8% 51%
13 DPO EP -2 9.5% 90.5% 62%
14 DPO EP -1 8.0% 92.0% 68%
15 DPO Expected period 6.5% 93.5% 74%
16 DPO EP +1 5.3% 94.8% 79%
17 DPO EP +2 3.8% 96.3% 85%
18 DPO EP +3 2.5% 97.5% 90%
23 DPO EP +71% 99.0% 96%

 

[Sarah27]

ooH bILLY boots I love all those stats! But like Crystaldrops said I bet there are a ton of ppl employed by the hpt makers to quote their BFPs on line to ruin our 2ww!! Well I am due Af today possibley or tomorrow and no sign yet!!! Keep thinking she is arriving buttttttttt its just cm!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[misstia]

Hey Billyboots, don't give up yet, we are all still in this together, I didn't test this morning but will tomorrow and friday! Keep us posted and thanks for the stats. See we aren't even 12 dpo yet and so we have over 12% chance right?

Thinking of you!!!!

 

[hopin2bmommy]

Before I started TTC , all I've seen was "a test should work the day after missed period, and if it doesn't then wait a week(!) and test again". The problem with TTC-ers is tgat we know too much, and that we've surfed Internet sooo much to see those "bfp at 8 dpo" cases. Sometimes I think hpt producers actually pay people to go online and tell about their early-detected pregnancies. TTC is supposed to be a beautiful journey, so why stressing ourselves out. The only way to assume u are out is after AF has shown up, and early testing is just for possibly but not necessarily finding out abt pregnancy earlier, not for rendering a cycle as successful or failed. Before AF there is Nothing really to indicate that conception hasn't occured

I like your post

 

[Serene123]

10dpo is too early

 

[mrs.o]

Omg. This is the best thread. I think I am 10DPO. (Not sure since FF has not detected it) I took a HPT this morning and got a BFN. So glad to hear that I am not the only one going a bit mad about this. My DH must think I am crazy. I got up at 5am to test and jumped on B&B since then. Lol. Again, thanks ladies.

 

[Billyboots]

Anyone else got lower backache? I've had it since 7dpo and it's not going??

 

[mrs.o]

Billyboots, I had lower backpain with my 1st. Even before I got my BFP. Crossing my fingers for you!!

 

[Billyboots]

What symptoms have you got mrs.o? Xx

 

[Mother of 4]

Anyone else got lower backache? I've had it since 7dpo and it's not going??

I have also had the lower back pain. I know I had this with my other pregnancies but I'm not sure about this early. What are your other symptoms. My only other symptom is tender breasts. I keep having my husband rub my back...it's right around the tail bone area so pretty low. Is that where yours is?

 

[Mollykins]

Anyone else got lower backache? I've had it since 7dpo and it's not going??

That's when my lower backache set in and it was pretty distracting. I was also accompanied by uterine cramps. I had it until yesterday (10 dpo) and then I had what I think was implantation bleeding; only a little pink when I wiped after using the restroom and then the next time I had to go I wiped and it was brown. (sorry if that's tmi!) And then that was it. AF isn't due until Friday for me spotting before AF isn't normal. Right now I'm a bit nauseous and have been since I woke up. I'm so nervous! What dpo are you Billyboots?



FX for

 

[misstia]

Well 11dpo and another BFN......... I know, I know, should wait but to anxious. I fell it's over for the month but I'll continue to have hope until AF comes'a'knockin.

 

[Mollykins]

Mother of 4 - That is exactly where mine is. It's a little uncomfortable today but nothing horrible. How are you doing today?