11DPO, another BFN, but still crampy...confused!?

[Hopefulmaybe]

Another stark white BFN this morning on FRER. Yet still mega crampy and at 11DPO. Would it be possible that all this cramping is from implantation? But would it last several days like this? And why would implantation take place so late anyway?
First of all we BD'ed 2 days before O and would it really have waited over a week to start implanting? And would I really feel these cramps from 8dpo-11dpo...seems unreasonable but would like thoughts?

Also have lots of extra acne, had a sore throat on 2DPO. headaches on 2DPO and 4DPO. emotional mood swings to extremes and so fatigued the past few days I can barely do a thing but sit like a lump with heavy eyelids. And boobs heavy too.

My last child was a boy and we BD'ed the day before, the day of, and the day after O. I had a faint BFP on 9DPO...maybe because of the timing this time, it could be a girl so completely different implantation, everything?

Seems too long for these cramps to be implantation and seems so late...

 

[Hopefulmaybe]

Oh and so much wetness I am soaking the crotch of my pants every few hours, it is like I peed my pants! But it is not pee and I don't notice it happening until my child says why is there a big wet spot? and off I go to change my pants AGAIN...what is that about??

 

[doggylover]

I'm sorry I can't tell you what any of that means but try and stay positive, and hopefully you will PEE positive in the next few days.

 

[StellaBella24]

Can I ask what your cramps feel like?

I am also 11dpo and BFN this morning. My cramps are AF like but with the odd sharp twinge every so often. They started yesterday

 

[Hopefulmaybe]

cramps started as butterfly twinges and fluttery feelings on 8DPO then got stronger and more AF like on 9DPO and got really strong yesterday on 10DPO, achey and radiating around my back and onto my upper thighs, very much like bad AF and I dont even get bad AF until day of AF or day after and usually mild. The cramps are on sides, middle and today on 11DPO they are on the sides and dull aches but not as strong as 10DPO so far. It got so bad yesterday it went to diareaah! I find this all very strange....

 

[Hopefulmaybe]

peeing lots too, that started being more around 6DPO and it is increasing in frequency daily.

 

[Hopefulmaybe]

Really hope someone can help shed on light on this....

 

[LilyPea]

I can't really shed any light but I am going through the same thing with the cramps and increased CM that makes me need a panty liner. My crampiness started a few days ago as well kind of fluttery and I don't usually get af cramps so it's hard to say if that's what my cramps feel like. Fingers crossed for us hun xx GL

 

[Hopefulmaybe]

It is just so hard not knowing...and if I'm not preg I would like to know why my body is acting this way!
So no more cramping today, seems to be done, just a few slight ones now, back to how they were on 8DPO the butterfly fluttery feelings more centrally located. Strange.
Still desperately tired and lethargic...
And feeling kind of nauseated now with a lack of appetite for anything much...
Stay hopeful...

 

[Hopefulmaybe]

12DPO and a stark white BFN...I am thinking this is not going to happen.

 

[samii91]

12DPO and a stark white BFN...I am thinking this is not going to happen.

your nto out till the shows! keep positive. i hope that bfp is just round the corner xx

 

[Hopefulmaybe]

I just feel there would be even a faint line by now...do you know if it makes any difference in timing of when O happened to when implantation happens? I just find it hard to see 8-10 days passing from O to implantation...