11dpo BFN but convincing symptoms.

[Gvw015]

Today is 11dpo.herr is my symptom list this far:

4-5 dpo: ovary twinges, uterus cramping.
6-8 dpo: increased creamy cm, left side
Ovary cramping/twinging
10 dpo: bright red spotting when wiped (just once!) continuous cramps.
11 dpo: sore Bbs! Fluttering in uterus.

BFN!!!! Ugh!!!!!!

Anybody had a bfn at 11 dpo to go on with a bfp unexpectedly!

 

[Gvw015]

Bump.

Someone please tell me there HONESTLY is hope still. I always thought 11dpo was late for a bfp... Surely it would show up by now?

 

[ellitigg]

It sounds like promising symptoms to me. I don't think 11dpo is late for a bfp either. I'm 12 dpo today and not planning to test until AF is past due (prob Friday) because I don't want the disappointment of a BFN before that lol. When is AF due?

 

[Gvw015]

Friday. 14dpo.
I never get sore Bbs ever it's not a pms symptom so I'm like what?! I really hope so... I'm tired of trying now. I want my own child. We hav a specialist appt next month but really wanted to not have to go.

 

[Gvw015]

I'm
Second guessin myself now...
I keep Doing this- thinking that I am and then I o without symptoms for an hour and convince myself I'm not again...
I feel really Low. We've been trying so long!
It feels like it would be a total absolute miracle if it were to happen now. It feels so unlikely....

 

[Loz89]

I know this feeling

 

[Gvw015]

Do you think 11dpo is late and I should accept its a bfn?

 

[Loz89]

No way!! Not until AF is late!

 

[Gvw015]

Only 3 more days till she is due and I'm praying to every possible god that this is our time finally! In tired of being emotionally drained!
I just always thought 10dpo was a cut off for a bfp?

 

[tinadecember]

Not at all! Just depends how quickly your HCG levels rise. I have read so many stories of women who are in your position and don't get a BFP until a week after AF is due xx

 

[Gvw015]

Just these Internet stories of people getting bfp's at 8dpo! They make me expect it so much sooner.

 

[tinadecember]

You need to remember though that every woman is different!

I've been reading up about implantation this morning and it can occur anywhere between 7-10 days after ovulation. And then HCG levels start to rise.

The women who get BFPs early must implant really early on

Don't worry until AF shows up, I know it's disheartening to keep seeing BFNs but it's still early xxx

 

[Gvw015]

Does my spotting sound like implantation bleeding?

Bright red spots of blood on CD10. Not in cm, just by themselves..
If I was, I should expect a bfp tomorrow? (12 dpo)

 

[tinadecember]

Yeah spotting at 10DPO could deffo be implantation bleeding. It might take a few days for your levels to rise so I'd give it a couple of days then test again xx

 

[ellitigg]

To be sure, I'd wait until AF is due otherwise any BFNs are just going to leave you feeling more uncertain. I'll be testing at the end of the week if AF stays away, test with me

 

[Gvw015]

Ok I caved b4 I read this. Lol. Bfn.
I am now 2 days until af due so I'll just wait and see whether she comes. At this point I think it's probably a safe bet to expect her. After 18+ months trying, it's a safe bet I'm not.
I am so envious of those who just get it right the first or second try.

 

[LucyFur]

I'm 12 days late for AF and still getting BFNs. I keep reminding myself that it's not over until AF arrives! BTW I hear a lot of women saying they feel pain their uterus. I feel a bit daft to admit to this, but I don't know the position of my uterus. If I get pain in that area I call it stomach ache or abdominal pain.

 

[Loz89]

I'm due for AF tomorrow and I'm crossing everything and praying that she doesn't show and I'm pregnant... Ill keep you posted, keep the positive comments coming I think I'm going to need it

 

[ellitigg]

I'm such an idiot lol....In the middle of the night I woke needing to pee which is pretty unusual. I had this waaaaay out of date digi from when I was pregnant before so I was like what the hell (who POAS at 3:30am...).

So the test came back pregnant with the the '1-2' and '3+' weeks bits highlighted. I then read on the Clear Blue site that out of date tests can give false positives. Whhhyyy did I do that to myself? Now I have to go out to the POAS shop at lunchtime and try to avoid seeing my work colleagues!

 

[Gvw015]

I say uterus when it's lower than a "stomach" pain. It's
More like right above the lady bits ? Lol. Between the hips bones.

Symptoms today:
Killer lower back pain.
Sore Bbs.
Headachy.
Very sore hips.
And starting to feel like a UTI...