13 dpo & now really confused. Can anyone help?

[hercfreak]

As the title suggests i'm 13 dpo & now I'm really confused. I never have any strange symptoms or goings on with my body between cycles. However, this cycle I've been having symptoms on & off since 1dpo. Consisting of sore nipples, cramps, tender boobs, backache, fatigue & I felt a little bit sick after eating yesterday. I tested 2 days ago & got a bfn. My dh works away during the week so we only get to baby dance at weekends. This weekend being no different. Dh told me my boobs feel bigger & whilst he was massaging them, they started weeping, this definately hasn't happened before. Yesterday & today I've had light spotting but af is due any moment. Could this finally be it & how much longer should I wait to test again?
Any help greatly appreciated.

 

[struth]

It's really up to when you want to test. How long is your LP usually? I know if I were you I would be testing today!

 

[hercfreak]

It's normally 13-15 days.

 

[LaraJJ]

It certainly sounds promising hun. There is only one way you can know for sure..............
Good luck and let us know how you get on

 

[Hopin&Prayin]

I have to agree, you definately have some positive signs hun... BTW I so love your wedding dress, its beautiful... WOW...

If I was you I would NOW.... FX'd you get your

Sending tons and babydust your way hun. Good Luck... Keep us posted!!!

 

[hercfreak]

Thanks ladies,

I'm going to test in the next couple of days. I was quite poorly over the new year so going to wait an extra couple of days just in case my illness has knocked my cycle slightly and does arrive!

Will keep you posted.

 

[hercfreak]

OK I'm even more confused. TMI alert!
I woke up this morning or should I say I was woken up this morning by a horrible stabbing pain at half past 2. I thought it was just my bladder being really full but when I got up for work I wiped away some blood. It was bright red and seemed to be mixed in with CM. My flow is normally a dark red so don't think it is . But I really don't know. It just makes it really strange as I never have any symptoms during my cycle where as I have had loads this one.
Is there still a chance that we have been sucessfull this cycle?
Just been to the loo again & now there is only a small amount of blood which looks like it's the last bit to to come through (hope that makes sense!) Can anyone help? Would it be a waste of time if I tested tomorrow if there was no more blood?