14 and Pregnant? Please help.

[picklesa]

Could I be pregnant? I am 14 and my boyfriend and I were just messing around and figured it wouldn't be a big deal to just try it. It was not very long and he didn't finish. It has been a week and I realized how big of a mistake it was. I've been researching every spare second and freaking out the past week. I have had some bleeding after getting fingered, but that has happened before. I have had headaches, but the could be related to sinus. I feel bloated but that could be in my head. I am so scared. I don't usually have regular periods, so I don't know how I will track it. I plan to take a test, but we don't know how to get one without telling our parents. Any advice? Is it a high chance of pregnancy? He never finished, but he did finish about four hours before. Could that affect anything? I know I'm way too young. I will never do it again, but the mistake has been made unfortunately. Please help!!!

 

[skyesmom]

this forum is for pregnant teens only so your post will be locked; anyway - you can buy a test in a dollar store or a pharmacy without your parents knowing it. i would wait for 3 weeks between the intercourse and the testing time, just to make sure that you don't get a false negative result.

as far as the other things are concerned: unprotected sex is always a risk, if he had finished before and hasn't used the toilet in the meantime, it can increase the chance of some sperm getting inside of you. the risk is less if he has peed in the meantime, though BUT you can NEVER take this for sure as a precaution.

you are both still very young and in an age where one day you feel like a grown up and the other like a child still; i think everything is ok with you this time around, but use this "scare" for the future as a reminder.
the day when you will want to have sex again will come, no matter how repellent and scary it may seem to be now, so when it does, remember this and take the necessary precautions. not only you'll avoid getting pregnant, but also you'll save yourself A LOT of worrying over it.

 

[AP]

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