14 dpo!

[WeeNat]

Hey ladies - thanks for posting all of this. I am 13 dpo w/ a negative on 11 dpo and one today. AF not due until tomorrow so who knows, however, been feeling really odd: dizzy, itchy, my eyes got really bloodshot for about an hour two days ago, areolas lighter (odd) and some small bumps - which I heard can happen when preggo or not, sometimes queasy sometimes not, trouble concentrating at work, sleeping well - usually have insomnia, definite tingles behind my pelvic bone and on 9 dpo pulling while I was skiing. We shall see! Wishing good vibes to you all!!

You have a lot going on just now... i hope this is signs of a wee beany snuggling in! xx

WeeNat: Awh, well still keep our fingers crossed! Possibly make a doctors appointment to see whats going on? Have you tested lately? If its a no-go, back to the fun part. Keep us updated! Baby dust to you!


Itsawonder: Thanks girl! Sounds like a good sign for you! at 11DPO I guess the odds of a BFP arent the greatest so test again tomorrow! If you get your BFP post pictures =]]


Another update on me:
Still have the pulling/tight feeling in my pelvic area. Also today, I felt stuff coming out. Wasnt sure if it was Just discharge or AF showed up. (TMI ALERT!) so I went to the bathroom and extremely watery cm gushed out. It was kind of gross. Im not sure what that means? Reading online some people said they had that alot during the first few months of pregnancy. so hopefully its a good thing. I dont know. Nervous and the anticipation is killing me! Hopefully everyone gets a BFP soon!!!

Wowzers!!... dont mind the TMI... i dont gross out that easy lol. I have read that thats a good sign!!!

Im feeling twinges going on tonight... i hope this is not AF trying to make its self known!!! x x

 

[NadiaSweety]

UPDATE: I was expecting AF on Monday so I am going on 4 days late. But I got a BFN this morning. One weird thing was after sex on Monday night there was some spotting but noting more in the moring or since. I am so confused. Assuming that AF does not come, how long should I wait before seeing the doctor? Should I go before the newyear or wait till after?

 

[babybeebee79]

I'm going to pop my head in here, as I just found this post.

I am 13dpo, 2 days past AF, cd33 and BFN's on 9dpo, 11dpo and 12dpo.

I refuse to test again until Christmas Eve. By then I'm sure to get either AF or a

I have every symptom you can imagine, fatigue, distraction, increased CM and urination, no spotting, no sign of AF, tender larger boobs, vivid dreams early on, missed period and nausea the past 2 days.

My mom was weeks late before she knew she was preggers w/ me, so maybe there is hope!

I'm reading all of you ladies posts going..."omg, that is so me!!!"

Good luck to you all!

 

[Jessica93]

Welcome BabyBee!

Wow I couldnt imagine having the patients to wait until christmas eve! its an awsome idea but I could cave! Hopefully you get your xmas BFP!!

I am now 19DPO no AF but I have not retested yet and its killing me!!!lol!!


Has anyone else retested??

 

[Jessica93]

UPDATE: I was expecting AF on Monday so I am going on 4 days late. But I got a BFN this morning. One weird thing was after sex on Monday night there was some spotting but noting more in the moring or since. I am so confused. Assuming that AF does not come, how long should I wait before seeing the doctor? Should I go before the newyear or wait till after?

Well, from what my sister told me (shes 6weeks preggo), she didnt get a positive until 7 days after her missed AF. So, Like me, Im waiting til 21DPO to retest. I also read that some people NEVER get a BFP on a POAS even at 9mo preg. So if you feel it would be best, go to the doctor for a blood test. Good luck, keep me posted =]

 

[babybeebee79]

Welcome BabyBee!

Wow I couldnt imagine having the patients to wait until christmas eve! its an awsome idea but I could cave! Hopefully you get your xmas BFP!!

I am now 19DPO no AF but I have not retested yet and its killing me!!!lol!!


Has anyone else retested??

I figured that the festivities of Christmas eve would take over any BFN sadness, so why not just test and enjoy the day without question!
That day would officially make me 19dpo, and if the witch didn't show by then, my odds have to be close to being right!

I have been having this suspicion that because my LP is only 11 days, that testing early (12, 13, etc ) I haven't really had the HCG buildup as one would with a 14d LP. So, instead of seeing that white strip with one line, I'm going to just hold on up and wait for a Christmas miracle.

After all, I have been told Santa works wonders

 

[Jessica93]

Welcome BabyBee!

Wow I couldnt imagine having the patients to wait until christmas eve! its an awsome idea but I could cave! Hopefully you get your xmas BFP!!

I am now 19DPO no AF but I have not retested yet and its killing me!!!lol!!


Has anyone else retested??

I figured that the festivities of Christmas eve would take over any BFN sadness, so why not just test and enjoy the day without question!
That day would officially make me 19dpo, and if the witch didn't show by then, my odds have to be close to being right!

I have been having this suspicion that because my LP is only 11 days, that testing early (12, 13, etc ) I haven't really had the HCG buildup as one would with a 14d LP. So, instead of seeing that white strip with one line, I'm going to just hold on up and wait for a Christmas miracle.

After all, I have been told Santa works wonders

Awh! well baby dust to you!! what a wonderful christmas present that would be! Lol If it came to be a BFP good luck containing your excitement through the christmas festivities!!

I hope that if I call the doctor friday if I get another BFN, hopefully they can get me in on monday for a blood test but I doubt it. Maybe I should call tomorrow. Im just so nervous!!

 

[babybeebee79]

Welcome BabyBee!

Wow I couldnt imagine having the patients to wait until christmas eve! its an awsome idea but I could cave! Hopefully you get your xmas BFP!!

I am now 19DPO no AF but I have not retested yet and its killing me!!!lol!!


Has anyone else retested??

I figured that the festivities of Christmas eve would take over any BFN sadness, so why not just test and enjoy the day without question!
That day would officially make me 19dpo, and if the witch didn't show by then, my odds have to be close to being right!

I have been having this suspicion that because my LP is only 11 days, that testing early (12, 13, etc ) I haven't really had the HCG buildup as one would with a 14d LP. So, instead of seeing that white strip with one line, I'm going to just hold on up and wait for a Christmas miracle.

After all, I have been told Santa works wonders

Awh! well baby dust to you!! what a wonderful christmas present that would be! Lol If it came to be a BFP good luck containing your excitement through the christmas festivities!!

I hope that if I call the doctor friday if I get another BFN, hopefully they can get me in on monday for a blood test but I doubt it. Maybe I should call tomorrow. Im just so nervous!!

I understand your nerves....I had to get tested last month for blood and it was negative...its harder to get that news, because the chic on the phone is like, YOUR RESULTS ARE NEGATIVE. No sympathy for anything....at least we can privately mourn our pee stick BFN's....lol

I am so eager to hear how yours works out. If you were preggers the same time as your sister...omg, how exciting!!!! My sister never wants kids, my sister in law is a total beeeotch and my other two SIL's are WAY too young...so i'll be the first Just hoping this Christmas is MERRY!!!!!

 

[Jessica93]

Well ladies, I am starting to lose hope. I woke up today with a lot of tightening and pulling. I took a test, got another BFN. I am not 20DPO...
I wish I knew what was going on because i have never been late for my period. Ever. Should I make a doctors appointment? I dont want to hear them tell me that its a BFN. =[

 

[WeeNat]

Well ladies, I am starting to lose hope. I woke up today with a lot of tightening and pulling. I took a test, got another BFN. I am not 20DPO...
I wish I knew what was going on because i have never been late for my period. Ever. Should I make a doctors appointment? I dont want to hear them tell me that its a BFN. =[

Evening Jessica, if this is out of the normal for you i would get an appointment. Thats what the doctors are there for, if you have any worries! It would put your mind at rest (im sure) and you will be able to enjoy the festives!

Good luck

 

[babybeebee79]

Well ladies, I am starting to lose hope. I woke up today with a lot of tightening and pulling. I took a test, got another BFN. I am not 20DPO...
I wish I knew what was going on because i have never been late for my period. Ever. Should I make a doctors appointment? I dont want to hear them tell me that its a BFN. =[

Hey Jessica,
Gosh I hope that you are feeling better

Don't lose hope. I know it sucks but even if it really IS a BFN, it might be better to check it out.

I recently had a 43 day cycle, WTF! It was horrible...i lost valuable time "trying again" but there was nothing even the Dr could do.

If you have GREAT insurance, I'd say go for it...but I have a high Co-pay.

So my advice, is sit tight.
Stop peeing on those sticks (those BFN's have this way of fkn up your ENTIRE mood...)
Eat right...just in case a munchkin is inside, you'll be feeding them well
Have a "me" moment. And watch a chic flick, cry if you have to, get your nails done or just stay up late eating popcorn and reading a good book.

I've been in your shoes SO many times, praying, hoping, crying....and then suddenly, AF shows up

I am on cd34 right now, no sign of AF in sight, All BFN's as of 12dpo (today is 14dpo) and I am taking my own advice.

I gave DH all my preggers tests to hold hostage. I refuse to test until 12/24. That way, Its a done deal. AF will show, or maybe I'll be SO far along, I will be a BFP.

Dont fret that you are 20dpo. I know its so unrealistic that its possible..., but this darn TTC is hard.

I am losing hope, but there is one thing that keeps me going at this....I want a Many hugssssss

 

[Jessica93]

Well ladies, I am starting to lose hope. I woke up today with a lot of tightening and pulling. I took a test, got another BFN. I am not 20DPO...
I wish I knew what was going on because i have never been late for my period. Ever. Should I make a doctors appointment? I dont want to hear them tell me that its a BFN. =[

Hey Jessica,
Gosh I hope that you are feeling better

Don't lose hope. I know it sucks but even if it really IS a BFN, it might be better to check it out.

I recently had a 43 day cycle, WTF! It was horrible...i lost valuable time "trying again" but there was nothing even the Dr could do.

If you have GREAT insurance, I'd say go for it...but I have a high Co-pay.

So my advice, is sit tight.
Stop peeing on those sticks (those BFN's have this way of fkn up your ENTIRE mood...)
Eat right...just in case a munchkin is inside, you'll be feeding them well
Have a "me" moment. And watch a chic flick, cry if you have to, get your nails done or just stay up late eating popcorn and reading a good book.

I've been in your shoes SO many times, praying, hoping, crying....and then suddenly, AF shows up

I am on cd34 right now, no sign of AF in sight, All BFN's as of 12dpo (today is 14dpo) and I am taking my own advice.

I gave DH all my preggers tests to hold hostage. I refuse to test until 12/24. That way, Its a done deal. AF will show, or maybe I'll be SO far along, I will be a BFP.

Dont fret that you are 20dpo. I know its so unrealistic that its possible..., but this darn TTC is hard.

I am losing hope, but there is one thing that keeps me going at this....I want a Many hugssssss

Thanks. Well 21DPO and no AF. you're right, im basically just stressing myself out with all these BFNs. I think I will just continue to wait. I have good insurance, but its still a $20 copay. And I can think of better things to spend $20. Especially if its another BFN. lol. Its so frustrating because I work part time, so when I am not working, I am always thinking about it. Lol. Even when I am working, I still think about it because I work for Hallmark and I see all the cute baby cards and gift wrap.

I dont know how some of you ladies keep so calm.

 

[Jessica93]

Nobody has updated me lately!!

Any BFPs yet??

 

[WeeNat]

Hi Jessica, sorry i havent posted.

Nothing here... just negitives. Due AF today but it hasnt made its entrance. Im non the wiser. I havent a clue whats going on with this cycle.

how are you getting on?

 

[babybeebee79]

Got my AF today. Totally freakin' crushed. 14dpo. No clue how I am gunna keep it calm over the holidays when all i wanted was to pop the "stick" into DHs stocking.

I hate this

Good luck to everyone else

 

[Jessica93]

Hi Jessica, sorry i havent posted.

Nothing here... just negitives. Due AF today but it hasnt made its entrance. Im non the wiser. I havent a clue whats going on with this cycle.

how are you getting on?

Do you have any symptoms? When are you going to test?

I dont have many symptoms anymore. Just bloating, mild cramps which I have had since ovulation, and heart burn.

 

[Jessica93]

Got my AF today. Totally freakin' crushed. 14dpo. No clue how I am gunna keep it calm over the holidays when all i wanted was to pop the "stick" into DHs stocking.

I hate this

Good luck to everyone else

Awh im sorry hun!
Still try to have a good christmas. Keep in touch. Let me know how you do on your next cycle!

 

[WeeNat]

Got my AF today. Totally freakin' crushed. 14dpo. No clue how I am gunna keep it calm over the holidays when all i wanted was to pop the "stick" into DHs stocking.

I hate this

Good luck to everyone else

I know how your feeling, i guess we have all been there at one point! If you want to take another look at it, you can join in the festive wine drinking!
It will happen for you... its not knowing when but it will!!

Try and keep happy and smile when you can x x

Hi Jessica, sorry i havent posted.

Nothing here... just negitives. Due AF today but it hasnt made its entrance. Im non the wiser. I havent a clue whats going on with this cycle.

how are you getting on?

Do you have any symptoms? When are you going to test?

I dont have many symptoms anymore. Just bloating, mild cramps which I have had since ovulation, and heart burn.

I have NO symptoms what so ever!! The only thing thats been getting at me is a runny nose that gets blocked at night and in the morning and constant sneezing!! lol (a cold right!! ) I have tested today and got yet another negitive

What are your norm symptoms before AF? x

 

[NadiaSweety]

Update: My supposed IB/super light spotting has become AF here on 19dpo. So I am out for this month. Putting all my hope into Janauary!

 

[WeeNat]

Update: My supposed IB/super light spotting has become AF here on 19dpo. So I am out for this month. Putting all my hope into Janauary!

Oh crap!!! When did you have the spotting!!!?

Good luck with January and enjoy all the festive wine x