14, Pregnant, and desperatedly in need of advice

[mz_jackie86]

Hey hun, I know your worried and without your mums support it can seem pretty hard but your definately in the right place for support!
A friend of mine had her first baby at 14 she is now 32 and it hasnt ruied her life she is an amazing strong woman has an excellant career (beauty therapist) so dnt think you have ruined your life when the baby is od enough to go nursery you can continue with education! Its not the end of the world..its just the beginning!!! xx

 

[Aidan's Mummy]

hey sweetie

im 16 and 29 weeks preg with a little boy. Even tho i am a bit older hun i know how you feel. Your scared, excited, and worried about all the things about being a mummy so young. Im sorry your mum isnt being much help but your so young and she proberly dosent know how to react. chin up hunni and if you ever need to talk PM me#

When is baby due??
xx

 

[Donna-marie]

heya babe im 19 i now im a few years older than u but i just wana say that when i 1st found out i was pregnant i was soo scared because my bf didnt want us n i sat ther for wks cryin thinkin what am i lettin myself in for n what if i cant love my child when it comes. But i tell you i think exacle the same as you i love it one min n the next i dont now what im doin but i think all mums 2 b have that thought. As for ur mum when the little 1 comes shel b over the moon and im sure shel even try 2 take over lol. So dont worry ul c it will all fall in to place xx

 

[Elli21]

if you ever need a chat or advice, ill help as much as i can hun.
PM me if you want to xx

 

[Newt]

you will find lots of advice and support here hun. Babies are a wonder, hard work....yes, but sooooo worth it

 

[Laura--x]

Its good you came to this site hun, its full of amazing girls and so much support.
I know its a very hard time at the minute hun and your full of questions and thoughts, im sorry to hear about your mum but it must be very hard for her to see her little girl having a baby. Hopefully she will come around soon and support you and your baby 100%

always here if you need a chat x

 

[nikky0907]

I'm sure you have a lot of questions hun and it's a confusing time for you.Just want to let you know that we are here for every rant,advice,question...

I'm sorry your mom isn't supportive right now,but I'm sure that once the baby is born she'll do a complete turn around.
Good luck!

 

[faith_may]

Hi sweetie, I'm here if you need to talk. I remember when I was 14 one of my friends got pregnant and I was with her during all her pregnancy, I'm pregnant now and it's hard for me (and I'm 25) so I can't imagine how hard it may be for you. Let me know if you need to talk, you're not alone, we all are here for you.

 

[kayley_baby]

congratulations with the pregnancy and good luck with everything! Hope you and your mum get sorted!

 

[Mrs.MC]

hey dear! i'm 18 and will have my baby at 18 also. i just wanted to offer lots of and jump on the support wagon. If you ever need anything, you can PM me any time or add my yahoo, it's in my profile. I hope things work out. And you child is a blessing, never forget that =)

 

[Dream.A.Dream]

You'll find lots of support on this site xx

 

[ricschick]

im so sorry you are havinga a hard time and your mum isnt being very surportive! have you tried talking to her about it? or is there anybody else you can talk to?
i no your scared hun every first time mummy is no matter what age you are but once you hold your little baby all that fear will go away.
what are you having boy or girl? any names yet?

 

[trishk]

Im sorry for hijacting this post but i just want to say to Hevz that i am so sorry for your loss!!! What a terrible thing to happen to anyone. How on earth did you cope with such trauma at the age of 14?

 

[claire roach]

Im sorry for hijacting this post but i just want to say to Hevz that i am so sorry for your loss!!! What a terrible thing to happen to anyone. How on earth did you cope with such trauma at the age of 14?

yeah i was thinking that aswell, 14 is a mere baby yourself really but pregnancy makes you grow up real fast.


and to the OP i 2 was 14 when i had my little girl whos now almost 13 herself (please lord dont let history repeat itself, a nan at 28 cripes)

with regards 2 your mum i think the fact she hasnt kicked you out or dragged you to the docs demandin you have an abortion is a small sign that she will support you hun, believe me it took my mum a while, not that i gave her much notice as i was 8months when we found out
but the fact is she DID come round and doted on her, plus i think the fact that your mum couldnt have her own babys will soften her somewhat


anyway all the luck in the world xxx

 

[Serene123]