15 and freaked

[AnnaK15]

hey all. I'm Anna. I'm 15 and I just found out I'm pregnant. I took a pregnancy test two days ago and it came out positive. my bf Ben and I have been together since the summer and he doesn't know yet. I havent told anyone. I'm really freaked out, I dunno how to tell him or my parents. I'll be 16 in September and am just finishing up my freshman year. I can't belive this actualy happened. We use condoms and thought we were being careful. Ben is 17 I feel like I ruined his life. He really loves me but I'm scared he'll be so mad. I'm always called the 'good girl' so I'm scared everyone will think bad of me. any advice on how to tell my bf and my parents? I feel so bad I messed things up.

 

[JadeBaby75]

You need to sit them down and tell them directly. If you are too afraid to do it alone maybe have Ben with you for support. Just come right out and say it.

These things happen and I know how terrified you must be but you have got to face this head on you can't worry about what other people think and if Ben doesn't stand by your side you will have to do this without him. Just know that because you will be a mommy it is crucial that you step up to the plate.

 

[lola_90]

Really hope your ok, arrange to meet with your bf and go somewhere quite and tell him.

Then once he has got his head round it tell your parents, the earlier the better so they can help with doctors appointments and to get used to the idea.

i waited until 10 weeks to tell my parents, but wish I had done it sooner as once they had gotten over the shock they have been so supportive.

Really hope it all goes well

 

[lil_mama_415]

just tell them and if he doesnt stay then its his loss not yours and everyone who really loves you will not think bad of you

 

[AnnaK15]

wow didn't think I'd get replies so quick. I want to tell him but we're both so stressed about finals and everything I don't want to add to that and freak him out even more. Should I wait till school is over? We've got like 2 days left I wanna tell him so bad but I'm so scared. I don't think he'll dump me but I don't think he will be thrilled either. My parents are what I'm worried about most. I just don't know how they'll take it. I'm still in shock too, it hasn't really hit me yet.

 

[xforuiholdonx]

Parents will be parents. They may yell, scream, bitch, but in the end, you are their child. They will love you regardless. Just sit everyone down, tell them the truth and decide what you want to do.