16 dpo and still bfn. anyone in the same boat??

[jaydsmom71611]

so i have tested a million times in the past four days. i am 4 days late and am on cd 33, my cycles are only 28 days. and yet i am still getting bfn. it's kinda frustrating that i don't have a period or two lines. looking for some advice or words of encouragement. stories/ experience would be greatly appreciated to.

 

[ilysilly]

Hopefully you'll get your BFP soon! Waiting is NOT fun. I'm 14dpo now and all BFNs and no AF for me. I have a feeling I'm going to be in the same boat. Do you have any symptoms of a BFP, or do you have any signs of AF?

 

[jaydsmom71611]

i had nausea on and off for the past three days, light short cramping, headaches, dizziness, and frequent peeing but other then that i have been normal. absolutly no symptoms of af other then being moody. so im a little confused. what about you?any symptoms for af or pregnancy? im glad im not the only one getting bfn with late af.

 

[ilysilly]

i had nausea on and off for the past three days, light short cramping, headaches, dizziness, and frequent peeing but other then that i have been normal. absolutly no symptoms of af other then being moody. so im a little confused. what about you?any symptoms for af or pregnancy? im glad im not the only one getting bfn with late af.

I've had the same things going on. I've also had plenty of lightning crotch and increased amount of bms. I have everything going on that I had while I was in tww with DD. I'm definitely confused too

 

[jaydsmom71611]

another bfn... lots of dull achy pain in the cervix area, don't know if that is a good thing or a bad one. i think im am just going to have to waut until im 21 dpo to see if i am pregnant or not. if i get a bfn then, im going to the doctors. i hope you find out whats going on with you soon.

 

[JohnsonGirl]

Hi Ladies!

Im in the same boat too- its beyond frustrating...i want an answer now!!
2 days late for AF but bfn on FRER today. Have had lower stomach cramps for days now but nothing's happening!

Hope its gonna turn into late bfp's for all of us!!!!!

Fingers crossed and good luck everyone

 

[jaydsmom71611]

welcome to the bfn nightmare lol. i hope we are late bfp'ers too, i havent had much cramping though... maybe im broken lol. having my first was so much easier. fingers crossed for everyone.

 

[JohnsonGirl]

I'm TTC #1 and have turned into a total crazy lady!! Its so stressful!
So glad we're in it together! Dont think my hubby would cope if i vented my inner craziness-haha!!

 

[jaydsmom71611]

hahaha, i've been pretty crazy as well. my hubby has learned to smile and nod they say the first is the hardest because you don't know what to look for or expect. but because you're late its a very good sign. and im glad too. HOPEFULLY we will be bump buddies and we can be venting crazy ladies together. my hubby needs a break lol

 

[lilydaisical]

Same boat!! AF was supposed to arrive on the 20th and still nothing. I'm on a 28-day cycle as well (well, it varies between 26-28, but it's usually 28. Always within that range. So regardless, I'm late.), and I got a BFN on the day AF was due. Not sure if it was legit or if it's because I tested in the middle of the day just to get it over with (I'm not a very patient person).

 

[jaydsmom71611]

lol im not a patient person either. i actually just sceduled an evaluation with my doctor, so maybe (hopefully) i can get some answers or at least know if im pregnant or not. im five days late so if im pregnant there HAS to be some level of hCG, hoping i am. fingurs crossed for you and everyone else here in this growing boat with me

 

[beads]

im in the same boat. AF was due monday (20th) but still a no show but BFN everytime! any advice??

 

[JohnsonGirl]

im in the same boat. AF was due monday (20th) but still a no show but BFN everytime! any advice??

Hi Beads!
Have you had any symptoms? Think we can only take it a day at a time- its frustrating!

I've had more belly ache and really teary today so Im probably gonna be out in the next 24hrs.

 

[lilydaisical]

Well, I had been just nauseated, but as of a few minutes ago, I threw up because of the smell of Ramen noodles. So I don't know if I'm actually sick, or if it's sickness due to something (someone?) else.

 

[beads]

Hi there. not really no! i really thought AF would come because i had cramps until yesterday but now they have stopped and still nothing. had back ache which i dont normally get when im due but thats all. Have you had anything note worthy? x

 

[Andrea214]

Hey. I'm 23dpo still AF was due on 17th so testing again in the morning

 

[JohnsonGirl]

Well, I had been just nauseated, but as of a few minutes ago, I threw up because of the smell of Ramen noodles. So I don't know if I'm actually sick, or if it's sickness due to something (someone?) else.

Sorry you feel sicky......but its probably a good sign!

 

[beads]

Sorry Johnsongirl,only just seen you put your symptoms at the bottom! now my post looks like i was saying your symptoms arent noteworthy. :-S

teary is a big PG symptom. my sister and bff are both PG and are emotional wrecks! xx

 

[lilydaisical]

Well, I had been just nauseated, but as of a few minutes ago, I threw up because of the smell of Ramen noodles. So I don't know if I'm actually sick, or if it's sickness due to something (someone?) else.

Sorry you feel sicky......but its probably a good sign!

Thanks! I keep expecting AF to arrive at any minute... but idk... I had some pretty odd symptoms that I'd never experienced before. Such as this weird pulling rubber band-ish twinge in my lower abdomen at one point. That was a few days ago, right around the time that implantation could have occurred if I WERE pregnant, according to numerous sources. So I have no clue if what I felt WAS implantation, or if it was something else... I put it out of my mind for a few days, but today I feel like poo. I hadn't thrown up in years.

 

[JohnsonGirl]

Sorry Johnsongirl,only just seen you put your symptoms at the bottom! now my post looks like i was saying your symptoms arent noteworthy. :-S

teary is a big PG symptom. my sister and bff are both PG and are emotional wrecks! xx

I really hope so but i usually get really teary the day before AF and Im feeling pretty sceptical after my BFN with a FRER. Still I suppose im not out until AF arrives!!!