PeachSalsa
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This will be baby #2 for me and my husband - I am almost 33 and he is almost 36. Before I got pregnant I thought I had this figured out thinking my son will be 5 and in school, I can take about a year off from work so it won't be so bad. But shortly after I started feeling very stressed out and overwhelmed at the thought of caring for 2 kids. I was exhausted and nauseous in the first trimester and feeling overwhelmed that entire time so I thought once I get my energy back in the 2nd trimester, these worries will go away. Well I'm almost 16 weeks and even though I got some of my energy back, I still worry all the time that I will be a horrible mom to 2, not being able to take care of them and deal with life with 2 kids. Is this normal?
I never felt this way with my first pregnancy - I was happy and feeling good the entire time, excited for baby to arrive. Possibly because I didn't know what taking care of a newborn was like... My son was a very difficult baby and toddler - he had colic for a couple months, didn't sleep through the night until almost 3 years old and to this day is extremely clingy to mommy. I guess I am expecting the same with the 2nd and am worried... I don't know how to stop - I know stress isnt good while pregnant but I just can't get happy!
I never felt this way with my first pregnancy - I was happy and feeling good the entire time, excited for baby to arrive. Possibly because I didn't know what taking care of a newborn was like... My son was a very difficult baby and toddler - he had colic for a couple months, didn't sleep through the night until almost 3 years old and to this day is extremely clingy to mommy. I guess I am expecting the same with the 2nd and am worried... I don't know how to stop - I know stress isnt good while pregnant but I just can't get happy!