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I'm not a single parent sweetie, But as nobody's replied yet... If you need someone to chat to I'm always around. xx
CathiiNoo
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Hi hun. I know what you're going through as I've been throught it with my ex. I didn't have a child with him but it was still hard in every way. I suggest maybe go to one of your favourite restaurant with friends or just have a girls day out. I always found that worked while I was healing. X
I think what you said about only thinking about the good memories about someone and none of the bad is completely normal, unfortunately this goes for everyone I think. In time it will get easier, and I know how hard it is ATM. My LO is now 16 months FOB has ever been involved and I had a very hard time for ages, but now I honestly couldn't care less, he's a waste of space and doesnt deserve either of us 
PM me anytime you fancy a chat, it's great to talk to people who have been through a similar experience.
PM me anytime you fancy a chat, it's great to talk to people who have been through a similar experience.
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I had the same problem with my ex husband. I would think about him all day everyday, obsessing and making myself miserable. Then I decided enough is enough and every time I caught myself thinking about him I would force myself to think about me instead. Things going on in MY life, making MYSELF a priority instead of that asshole. Good luck hun!
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Thanks ladies I no eventually I wont care I just wish that time would come sooner!
I need to stop my negative thoughts but its hard! I keep thinking of if I didnt do this we'd still be together ect but I shouldn't want to be with someone that acts the way he does!!
And I keep thinking how all my friends are with their FOB some are getting married or having 2nd baby n it makes me so sad.
I no I should feel like im in the better position but I feel like hes got his friends n a social life and hes gunna meet someone straight away ect like I feel like he is better off but I no I am cos I have LO
argghhh im even annoying myself everything is an argument between my heart and my head!
My head nos hes a stupid loser and ill be better off without him but my heart just wants him back! So annoying.
I need to stop my negative thoughts but its hard! I keep thinking of if I didnt do this we'd still be together ect but I shouldn't want to be with someone that acts the way he does!!
And I keep thinking how all my friends are with their FOB some are getting married or having 2nd baby n it makes me so sad.
I no I should feel like im in the better position but I feel like hes got his friends n a social life and hes gunna meet someone straight away ect like I feel like he is better off but I no I am cos I have LO
argghhh im even annoying myself everything is an argument between my heart and my head!
My head nos hes a stupid loser and ill be better off without him but my heart just wants him back! So annoying.
