20 years old and wanting to try and concieve.

[bc6778]

hi,
i am 20 years old and me and my partner are in full time job. I have a long term relationship with a guy who is amazing. I am settled and happy. I know he wants to settle down in the future but not anytime soon.

I dont want to ruin what we have by telling him how i feel or if i do become pregnant...

No harsh critics please just advice.

I have lots of best friends who have had kids at 16 so i know the struggles.

 

[teenmommy15]

Welcome to BnB im Bethany im 15 and due June 18th with a baby girl you may want to try the forum TTC(Trying to Conceive) and if you think your ready for a baby and you want to settle down and start trying i would definitely talk to your partner about how you feel, you never know maybe he's ready or maybe he'll come around to the idea and if he loves you enough he would not leave you if you fell pregnant and definitely shouldnt leave you by just telling him you think its time to try.

Best of luck on TTC, hope all goes well with your partner Btw no one judges on here you'll find tremendous support

 

[bc6778]

thanks for the reply. Well it doesnt help being around his brothers kids half the time either. We are on the road to moving out to . Just dont want to push him away thats all. I am getting to the age where i have done the "going out every weekend " and quite contempt on staying in. x

 

[teenmommy15]

no prob! yeah but you can just try and get him alone explain to him that you want to try maybe he doesnt want to right now maybe he wants to wait till you move out, im sure you guys can meet in the middle and pick a month or date that you guys want to start trying to conceive at. If you reassure him that you guys are ready and that he'll be a fantastic dad im sure he'll be less likely to stray away but it might be a shock to him at first, he most likely wasnt expecting this and doesnt know how to reply right away just give him time and space.

 

[bc6778]

yea i will try and talk to him. no harm is there .... as long as he doesnt feel backed into a corner...i know he will be a amazing dad i have seen him with both his nephews one who is 3 and one who is 6 months and it makes me smile everytime ...

 

[xforuiholdonx]

This is.something you need to discuss with your partner as it should be a.joint decision and.not just one sided. Sit him down and chat. You may be surprised!
Im lisa, 20, i have a 2.5 year old named Emma and am almost 28 weeks with our second!

 

[justhoping]

hi in Justhoping, mom to four,and ttc sounds like you need to talk to him and that he would be a gread dad. Try the TTC forum there very support there

 

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