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[WantingABubba]

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[Ceejay123]

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[WantingABubba]

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[Ceejay123]

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[Dezireey]

Totally relate to this!

My knobhead of an ex avoided child support for a year cos he was 'dirt poor' and couldn't afford to even eat blah, blah, blah. We were on fairly good terms with an agreement that he would just 'help out' when needed if I called him. I then do some homework ( he is a consummate liar) and find another web page he owns where he has another job on the side and talks about being excited picking up his new Audi car with a 6 change CD set in the boot!!

Fuming was an understatement for how I felt! My FOB not only refuses to even talk about or acknowledge his son! he won't offer a penny in support and spends money on kit and gear every day.

Get CSA on his arse ASAP hunny, PM me if you want to vent or anything, went through this a few weeks ago and I have never been so angry in my life discovering all the stuff I did about FOB. Totally sympathise with you!

 

[Ceejay123]

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[Yo_Yo]

What a loser.
When baby is here, go to the csa and make sure he pays his way.

 

[babycrazy1706]

What a c*nt!

 

[Jennaxo]

wow, what an asshole. Obviously doesn't know anything about priorities.

 

[Dream.dream]

My first dad does the same thing. He could afford his child support but could afford to supprt his gf sitting on her lazy butt , an engagement ring, a new truck, and a trip to the states .

Cut your losses they don't ever change their kids Arnt their priority

 

[44npregnant]

I'm no longer shocked that FOB cares about only himself. Just do what I do, wait patiently until the time comes when he will have to pay child support. Because it will come and it won't go away, at least not for 18 years.

 

[Dezireey]

I'm no longer shocked that FOB cares about only himself. Just do what I do, wait patiently until the time comes when he will have to pay child support. Because it will come and it won't go away, at least not for 18 years.

Very true. After all that most of us have been put through with these men, it's this that provides some sort of recompense. My child support is all organised now, just waiting for it to arrive in my bank. Will just make me feel better that my scum of an ex will suffer, even in the smallest way by having some money taken off him.

 

[Dream.dream]

I'm no longer shocked that FOB cares about only himself. Just do what I do, wait patiently until the time comes when he will have to pay child support. Because it will come and it won't go away, at least not for 18 years.

They can't avoid it forever but boy do they sure try